what i mean is i want to go get married just DP our son and I.
DP says unless we have a wedding he doesn't want to get married because his mum would be upset and it's not fair on our familys, i think we should take DS on holiday and come back married then we could have a party if we must.
My reason is no one likes each other and will be a nightmare. My mum and dad hate each other, my gran can't stand my dad, i can't stand my dad, my mum doesn't like DP's mum, DP's mum and dad are not on good terms, DP's dads girlfriend HATES dp's mum, DP's nan is not keen on his mum (is older and prone to cheeky outbursts) oh and DP's dad takes the piss out of DP's mums boyfriend because he's a nurse constantly. There are also a million relatives who would be offended if not invited DP has 8 aunts and uncles not counting their partners. And they will all want to have a drink get pissed to celebrate then it will turn into a war zone.
Also DP's 2 little step sisters would want to be involed in the bridal party and if my sister and niece are which is just to big for my liking.
TBH it sounds like fucking hell on earth to me! I don't want to get married to have a fancy wedding i just want to marry DP the thought of everyone gawping at me makes me feel sick!
AIBU to stand my ground for the wedding i want not want everyone else wants? (DP says he's be happy to do it just usbut it's not fair on everyone else)
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lola88 · 12/10/2012 20:25
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