Here's one that I think will provoke some debate. DS, aged seven is fussy about his food to say the least. He doesn't like our choice of food at tea time despite trying to offer a varied diet. We eat around 5:30PM when we come in from work. DS doesn't always eat his tea whether we prepare something different for him or not. One hour later, just we as have cleared up from tea and getting ready for bedtime routines, ds announces he is hungry. The other night, he tried to help himself to sausage rolls from the fridge without asking. Some of his tea was still left uneaten on the plate as I hadn't yet cleared it away. When I asked him to place the items back in the fridge, I had a major tantrum. To cut a long story short, he helped himself behind my back. Now, I know you shouldn't let kids go to bed hungry, but when he is snacking and I am throwing good food away, I cannot let this go. Interestingly enough, I was advised to let somethings go after previous posts about his behaviour, and his behaviour is generally much better.
Last night, he asked for tinned rice, after not eating all his tea, and dw gave it to him just before his bedtime routine. After she took him upstairs for bed, he came down three times for the toilet. Question I have to ask, was he genuinely hungry, or was this an attention thing. As I said, we cannot let him go to bed hungry, but this habit has been occuring every night for quite some time. DW always gives into him. I dissagree with this, but then it is dw who gets most of the shopping despite working every day as well as me. Just wondered what you all thought? I suspect it is typical seven year old, but not entirely sure.
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davyatsea · 09/10/2012 10:58
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