Each year they give christmas presents to all my dc, but they only send a birthday card for ds but presents for both dd. I wouldn't mind although the girls might if they didn't send any presents (on my side of the family we only do presents at Christmas). At the moment ds is only just 3, and his birthday is at a different time of year so it's not a big problem, but I'm worried it might be in the future.
I can understand why it might be diffiicult for them as the dd were both born before BIL+SIL were married, while ds was born about a year after. They haven't had any children, they don't usually talk about it, so we don't ask despite lots of comments from FIL I think it is probably too late for them now. I just don't know how to get dh to tackle the topic. I mean we could get something extra for ds, but then that might be awkward if he or the girls talk to them about the present/ thank you cards etc. Any advice?
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3duracellbunnies · 07/10/2012 12:35
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