Ok, this really is a dilemma for me, so any opinions gratefully received. Bit of a long story but will make it short..
My best mates bday in 3 weeks time and it's a big one, the big 40.In April this year it was her wedding and at the hotel afterwards one of her close friends started trouble. Came back totally pissed n tried to kick down my room door, with me and my 4 year old inside, shouting some crap about that her partner was inside ( total nonsense). She frightened the hell outta me and my kid and the police were called as she was causing trouble elsewhere in the hotel. She had found the missing partner and was attempting to beat them up.. Nice eh.
So, best friend's 40th in 3 weeks and she has invited above crazy mate. It will be a small gathering so I won't be able to avoid. I have texted my friend and told her I don't feel happy about going and that her mate totally overstepped the mark, frightening my son. Told her i'm happy to meet seperately n do something together that wkend.. but her silence would now suggest she's totally pissed off. Should I just go to keep the peace?
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To not go to my best friend's 40th. A real dilemma- opinions please
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michelleclaire · 06/10/2012 18:28
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