I work in a very specialised area and my dream job has come up in a city 30 miles away. It will take one hour to drive there and and another 45 minutes to drive through the city. However, family logistics make it very awkward. Ideally I could move my children's schools so that we all commute together but one is in Year 10 and has just started GCSEs and the other is 5 so he won't have any local school friends to play with. My husband is also telling me not to apply for this job as it would mean staying over during the week (my mother lives within 5 mins walk of this dream job) and he doesn't want the family split up during the week.
It also means a pay cut. It means double the amount of petrol I spend each week.
But it is a great job, career progression and I'm so fed up with my current job that I'm actually going to commit career suicide and have pre-planned my exit for this Christmas anyway.
Do I put my working life first or my family first?
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Teamumizumi · 28/09/2012 09:22
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