Please be gentle with me as im feeling a bit sorry for myself.
I am 7 weeks pregnant and suffered a MMC last year at exactly this point. Hence feeling maybe a bit more sorry for myself at this point than i should has i not lost my last baby. I also have a very lovable but extremely active 2 year old.
My DP's father passed away on Saturday, the hospital called at 6am on Saturday to call my partner to come see him before he passed and thankfully he got there in time to say goodbye. However he is now saying he might not come back home for 2 weeks (dp's dad lived 100 miles away). It could be sooner btu he will give me no indication.
Ive got the morning sickness from hell, have no friends to help out, i do have my mum but she works 2 jobs from 8am till gone 8pm most days and although she is being fantastic i feel awful for her to have to come round and help as she suffers from vertigo and tinitus (meniers syndrome) which gets worse if she gets tired.
My dp dosent even seem to be considering me, i found out on facebook that his dad had died, he didnt tell me for over 12 hours after, and i was quite close with DP dad so i found this very upsetting. He dosent want our son to come to the funeral and i cannot arrange any childcare as i dotn know anyone where dp's dad lived and i cant leave him with anyone here for more than a day. I dont drive so i coudlnt go there and back in a day. I would really like to say goodbye to him as he was a lovely man.
DP went out drinking with his brothers last night (again not judging this) but i asked him to let me know he was ok as he never drinks and his brothers are very heavy drinkers) and didnt get a response till gone 10 this morning. He hasnt told anyone in his family abotu this pregnancy due to us losing our last child so as far as they are concerned i should be able to cope with just one toddler, which i could normally, but i am feeling so terrified about losing this one and morning sickness, dizzy spells and severe lack of sleep on top is all increasing this worry.
Aibu to feel a bit put out and that he should be considering me as well? I wont say anything to him as obvously i realise he is going through a hell of a time too but... hmmmph... i dunno!
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Boo86 · 24/09/2012 16:22
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