My sister and I have always had a strange relationship. We're very close when we aren't living close together, which works out fine because we live 4 hours away from each other. But as soon as we spend time in close proximity we invariably end up fighting.
My sister has alway been 'babied' by our mum and so she is used to getting her way or uses emotional blackmail to get her way.
It works with my parents, but not with me.
Right now there is a huge amount of tension and stress and I need some objectivity so please help.
It's my sister's wedding on the 27/12 and all the preparations are in place.
A few days ago we had what seemed like a minor disagreement, but which has now blown out into mammoth proportions. I mean really really ugly.
In true form my sister is hysterical, crying and threatening suicide, and being absolutely awful. She won't talk to me or if she does it's to hurl abuse. I have tried to talk to her rationally but im fed up of being screamed at and sworn at. Tbh ive been pushed to my limit and a few times I've reacted to her. I know not good.
I have been helping her plan the more creative parts of the wedding and she is now trying to take over, claiming my ideas as her own, which should, but is bothering me and I can see she is struggling.
My parents are caught in the middle and being put in a really unfair position.
If you've gotten this far thanks you! My aibu is that I feel really uncomfortable going to to wedding under these circumstances.
But if I don't go it will cause a huge rift in the family and if I go I feel that I am compromising my integrity.
So please help me to decide, what do i do?
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rmm · 20/12/2011 09:40
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