One of DS(6) friend came round for him today he lives five doors away and his Mum allows him to play out by himself. I said he could come in and play as my DS aready had a friend in (her mum was also here) and isn't allowed to play in the street unsupervised.
Whilst I was having coffee in the kitchen this boy proceeds to jump over my furniture and hit & push my youngest DS(4) as told to me by DS and his other friend.
I am of the opinion that if I didn't actually see hitting with my own eyes then I issue the following warning "everyone keeps their hands to themselves or X & X will go home and nobody will be playing" I shouted this from the kitchen to which my DSs said the usual yeees muuum.
A few minutes later DS friend leaves the house slamming the door then I get a phone call from his Mum wanting to know who the hell I am thinking I can shout at her son. I explained what happened and thought that would be the end of it but she is still txting me saying things like. "yes he shouldn't have jumped on the couch but he is only a bairn" and "if my youngest is going to pinch he has to expect X to hit him back" (Both my boy and other friend said youngest DS did not pinch.) I have replied saying that "in future maybe he shouldn't come along to my house unaccompanied" to which she has said "don't start getting effing smart".
AIBU to think
a) he shouldn't be out by himself at 6
b) i have every right to issue said warning
c) she is being out of order
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this Mum is out of order
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Belini · 22/10/2011 23:11
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