Need to ask the wisdom of MN on this one.
We're looking at halloween costumes today on the Internet. He really wanted to be a ninja but the costume he had his eye on didn't have his size. So we looked at other alternatives but he said he didn't like those. Fair enough.
So we widen the search and he's just mindlessly clicking through the pages, not really making much effort. Eventually we find a ghoul outfit which was a maybe. Bit more searching and still nothing so I asked if we should just get it.
And he dropped into the "Don't know/I don't mind" stance which he knows frustrates me like mad. Basically he just shrugs his shoulders and refuses to make any decision or even let on if he actually likes it or not.
After a couple of minutes of explaining that I just want him to make a decision, I told him if he can't say yes or no then I simply won't get him a costume. He then runs off crying. I asked his sister (15) if I was being harsh and she said I wasn't and she'd have done the same.
So my question to the MN masses are:
a) AIBU?
b) Any clue why he won't make a seemingly simple decision? His mum thinks he's not good with large choices but surely at 10, he can make a decision over a bloody halloween costume!
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AIBU?
to expect DS(10) to make minor decisions?
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niceguy2 · 22/10/2011 10:44
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