Name changed in case friend comes across this.
Background -
I asked a friend to hold some money for me (well actually he offered and I later asked after considering it) as I was trying to save up for an event.
A little while later he had an unexpected bill and was a bit short and so I said to take my cash and just make sure it is replaced before the event.
He took it, used it and then replaced it when he was paid, at least he told me that he had.
Event never ended up happening for various reasons and I asked for the money. At this time he explained that he didn't have it on him but could get it out the bank.
Ended up not seeing him for a few weeks and got the feeling I was being avoided. Have mentioned it on a couple of occasions since and got various excuses about bills, payment problems, bank account issues etc. and always promised next week etc. and yet never arrived.
He eventually gave me half of the money and promised the rest the next week, again we then did not see each other for a long period.
Since then he has hit some serious financial problems and I KNOW he cannot afford to give it me, however it has now been 7 months since I first asked for the money.
I don't NEED it right now as such but with christmas coming up it would be handy, it's not a huge amount still owing (£120) but enough to not want to forget it.
I now feel bad for asking and have not asked for it in a while but it's starting to annoy me they he seems to have just forgotten it and never mentions it.
It's not like the money was even a loan in the first place, they were just holding it for me and yes I did agree they could dip into it ONCE but that dosn't mean I don't have a right to have it back.
I think it's time to get harsh and demand it back but OH thinks it will cause problems and that we shouldn't ask when we can see how much he is struggling.
AIBU to want it back when I know he will struggle to give it me?
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OogaBooga · 18/10/2011 01:07
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