Exp's best friend has a son 1 year older than ds who is just the most awful child I have ever encountered. He is nasty, naughty cheeky and bullys my ds everytime he see's him. He is 7 years old and has been excluded from his 1st primary school already!
I have spoen to exp about this many times, and he insists that if the other boy is naughty and/or bullys ds he is disciplined.
Last night ds came home with yet another huge bruise to the shin and a story of how the other boy had kicked him hard for not wanting to run in the field.
Rang exp after ds went to bed and he said I am being petty, ds needs to toughen up and that as far as he knew there had been no bullying
My dp is furious - he is basically bringing ds up as exp only sees him once a week and dp is currently a sahd to the 3 kids we have between us. He says I should stop contact until exp realises he needs to do what is best for ds, and not what suits him (ie seeing his best mate at the weekends)
I feel IWBU to stop contact, but IWBU to also allow ds to get bullied weekend after weekend
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woowoo2 · 19/09/2011 10:32
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