My BIL and his wife are named guardians for our DDs in our will.
I wasn't totally sure but DH was fairly insistent saying neither of my siblings were suitable on basis they weren't married to their respective partners at the time and lived too far from both our parents. I ended up agreeing just to get will done.
My relationship with BIL's wife is pretty strained. She has one DS roughly same age as DD2, he has SNs as a result of problematic delivery. All signs are no mental disability but some physical issues but that said he is doing amazingly and is a v active toddler. She has admitted to me once jealousy of our situation (2 healthy DDs). She is also v open that it is unlikely she will have more children and doesn't know how people cope with two.
I really want to change guardians in the will to my brother. Both my siblings are now married and settled with a child of their own. I just don't feel BIL and his wife are the best people (partly down to my personal issues with her). I have no idea how to convince DH I know he will disagree and it could cause a big row but I feel very strongly about this.
Any advice?
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whoneedssleepanyway · 01/09/2011 07:47
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