This is my friend, not me. Her DH is coming up to his 40th, he's celebrating with 4 days golf in StAndrews, a day's golf with a prof. A family lunch and party in the evening. He also has a golf membership that he spent £350 on despite them having no money. My friend cleans houses to make ends meet. Aside from him being a selfish bastard and doing stuff without asking, including a residential university course, and then saying it's too late to back out. They've been married 7 years and have three dcs.
So this weekend they have diggers in their garden for a big job.
His friend phones my friend, let's call her Jo, an.d asks to take her DH, John, away for the weekend as an extra birthday treat. My friend says no because of diggers. What follows is a tantrum, pleading, tantrums, silence and finally he announced he's going and goes.
So despite it completely putting Jo out, John goes knowing she has said, for the first time, no. And despite him having six other days of celebrating. He has also asked for two watches.
The lunch and party Jo is organising. She doesn't even feel angry as what's the point. I think that he'll use her and all her 'wifey' support and bugger off with someone else anyway, he already had an affair when their first child was 9 months...a honeymoon baby.
As a start I would cancel the parties.
I can't advise her really, any suggestions.
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wwyd you ask dh not to go away for weekend, he does anyway.
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ThePosieParker · 28/08/2011 08:35
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