an old friend from when i was a child wants me to go see him, we've reconnected on facebook he's just lost his dad to illness and he has been messaging me just talking about it all, i lost my mum a few years back and he says im the only person he knows whose lost a parent and thats why he was messaging me.
he's home on his own for the weekend and he's asked if i can go to see him i'd have very very lively 2 year old ds with me who has never met this friend of mine and he is not the best behaved child i'm also not well at the moment and i would have to catch the bus he lives 3 villages away.
i want to help him, i know how lonely it is not having anyone and i've only just come to terms with losing my mum myself although the circumstances i lost my mum were not the same by a long shot, am i being a heartless cow if i dont go? he has a massive family, he has a g/f and child but for some reason g/f isn't around all the time.
AIBU to not go? i feel like a right cow not going but im trying to think of myself too im not exactly at my strongest and not at my most trusting either x
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saladsandwich · 26/08/2011 10:20
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