I feel awful asking this because I know that you shouldn't buy someone a present because you'll receive one back but ...
My best friend has 4 children and I have 2. We live 50 miles apart but speak on the phone everyday. She is almost like the sister I never had, we talk to each other about absolutely anything. We have so much in common. She is godmother to my youngest and I'm godmother to her youngest.
We've always made the effort for the children to go to each other's birthday parties, although not quite so much the last couple of years as it's more difficult when having more than 1 child.
I always buy her children birthday presents and cards and even if we don't go to their parties, always send one. I spend £10/15. She always comments on how organised I am to get their presents on time. However she doesn't always bother to buy a present back for mine or even send them a card. I will make more of an effort to go to her children's parties - just because I'm not fussed about driving there, whereas she doesn't like driving so often won't come to my children's parties. She'll often say 'sorry sorry I'm so useless, I'm so unorganised!' I know the friendship sounds very one-sided but apart from this it's not, she has been an amazing friend in other ways.All their birthdays are between September and December, so birthdays are coming up soon this year. Would you only buy a present if you go to their party?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Do I buy best friend's children's presents again?
25 replies
Fuddymunster · 28/07/2011 08:59
OP posts:
Newsletters you might like
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.