Already feel like an ungrateful spoilt little madam even thinking this.
I can't fault my DH on any other level, but this. We don't really plan anything on birthdays/anniversaries anymore more due to the DCs and also because if I don't insist on us doing something, it doesn't happen.
I just want to have something lovely sprung on me, want him to be spontaneous and say early in the morning - 'why don't we.... today?' from his own volition. When I suggest something spontaneous, he'll normally agree but then have a little moan later that he had 'stuff to get on with' but didn't want to disappoint me/get me in a bad mood(?!!). Agreed his weekends are precious.
Whenever I hear of friends' DHs surprising them with xyz for whatever occasion it may be, I cant help feel forlorn and a tad jealous.
I know his personality type - a planner, and I am to a certain extent too but AIBU in wanting a little spontaneity once in a while??
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to just once want my DH to surprise me/do something spontaneous?
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maybeungrateful · 25/07/2011 21:43
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