I'm about 5"7 or 5"8 and about 8 and a half stone. Do you think it is acceptable for my DP to make comments such as "I wouldn't mind if [gesturing to my thighs] there was more, but I wouldn't mind if there was less" and "at least you go as well now ;)" in regards to me saying I went to the gym and to make comments to his brother that I eat a lot. If we go out for a meal and I haven't eaten much all day (usually because I haven't had the time so just grabbed something at my desk) then I'll eat a lot in front of him, I'm not embarrassed (or at least I wasn't embarrassed) to order a burger and chips and finish off the lot when having a meal together. We can be having Chinese and I'll have an entire portion of sweet and sour chicken to myself and he'll make jokey comments and poke my stomach. He will also joke about having to hide the chocolate from me in his house and express disbelief if I have a bar to myself. At first I did think it was quite funny and would laugh myself even though at the same time was a bit but now it's actually got to the stage where it is pissing me right off to be honest and I think it's pathetic. Surely he knows that is an area pretty likely to piss off any woman? I am confident in myself and don't think I should change anything. I told my sister who thinks that it is because he goes to the gym about 3-4 days a week and always eats healthily (basically is quite obsessed with his appearance although claims he doesn't care) that he maybe thinks I don't appear to look after myself in that way. I actually do make an effort to eat healthily but sometimes overindulge, so what? I've actually used to people telling me I should eat more and I was actually trying to put on weight before I met him not "I wouldn't mind if there was less"! When I looked him in the eyes and said, be serious, what do you actually think - he reiterated what he had just said. AIBU and 'precious' or would you be pretty pissed off too? Do you have partners that comment on your weight at all and if so do you think it's right?
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