Right.
He works three or four night shifts a week....from midnight to 7.30am...it's an easy job...not hard work and he often grabs a few hours sleep when it's quiet.
I am self employed and work whenever I can...my work piles up and I STILL seem to be doing most of the housework and childcare.
He has just gone to bed..last night was his last shift of the week and I am sat here with our three year old, a messy house and three pieces of work to complete.
I have to work with my toddler creating havoc....he'll get up later and moan that the house is a mess...he DOES contribute by cooking regularly and doing laundry (most of it) but it's me organising our older DDs homework, parties, lessons, clubs, dentists etc and taking the younger one to playgroup....and cleanng up....buying school uniforms, gardening....feeding the cats and makng the beds.
I just lost my temper and told him it was shit. I work up until 12.00pm or later most nights....he comes home and sleeps all day to recover from hs night shift...then when he is not working he gets 3 or 4 full nnights sleep!
Whist I was writing this he came down and asked me what he could do....AIBU to have him st with DD and cuddle on the sofa in front of the TV whlst I work? He hasn't got to go to work tonight.
And how can I get him to do more of the childcare?
DD is starting nursery in September.
AIBU?
To tell DH that he can't go to bed?
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