My ex partner thought it was a good idea 3 years ago to get my ds a lizard as he kept going on about wanting one, He got it off of preloved with a basic vivarium, I didn't know about it till he turned up with it,
Of course my ds 12 at the time was delighted, paid it lots of attention and got it out all the time, My nieces bf had one in the past and said he had a viv his dad wanted rid of and my ds could have it, so they all went to collect it, lights didnt work as it had been in their shed for ages but my ex got it all sorted with bits from the one we already had, the new one was better and we were very gratefull, We gave the origanal viv away on freecycle cos had no room to store it,
Forward on 3 years, Ds has lost interest in poor lizard, I feed him most days(when ds forgets) and switch his lights and heater on, Finally convinced ds that he needs to move on to someone that will take proper care of him, done lots of research online about selling him on and have more options if selling with viv, lights, heater etc, but now nieces bf has decided that if we sell him then he wants the viv back as he may get another lizard in the future,
aibu in thinking that after giving it to ds 3 years ago that this unfair?
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To think if you give someone something what they do with it 3 years later is up to them
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ILoveyouMum · 06/06/2011 21:48
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