I am 8 months pregnant and have 2 DC age 4 and 2. A swimming teacher was recommended ages ago but only had a space on monday lunch times. I loathe the whole swmming pool business but I do appreciate that it's important that we can all swim! I THOUGHT that DH said that he wouldn't mind taking them if it was at the weekend.
Anyway - the swmming guy has said that he has a space on sunday lunchtimes and as I say, I'm now 8 months pregnant. The 2 year old would certainly need DH or I in the pool with him but he would teach them both together in a double session.
I told DH he had a space and he said that he wasn't sure he wanted to commit to lessons every sunday so i said I understand and that it would be him that took them so it's up to him. He said he would assume that we would do alternate weeks but he's still not happy to commit.
In my current state and breast feeding a baby (which we know has cardiac issues already), it hadn't occurred to me that I should participate BUT that could be because I loathe swimming pools .
The end result is that the kids are not going to have lessons - I can't possibly do it without at least some of DHs help bearing in mind the ages of our DC plus new baby on the way so I can't set something up in the week for them.
Now am I just being crap by not wanting to take them swimming or should i pursue it? What's the minimum age we should be getting the older one going properly? We do go to the pool occasionally as a family but not very often at all.
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To not take our DC to swimming lessons or am i just being lame?
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RememberToPlaywiththeKids · 29/12/2010 20:39
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