My dd is 14. During the summer, she went on a week activity course. She knew noone on it, and made friends with a girl on it. The girl lives in a city 30 minutes from where we are.
My daughter has just come to tell me not ask that she's meeting this girl in the city centre on Monday morning. I said what time she said 10ish, I said how, she said by train, I said what time home, she said I'll make sure to be home by time you get in from work 5ish.
I said no way none of this is appropriate. I said you are not going to go in to a city centre by yourself to go and meet someone you hardly know, with no backup whilst I am at work.
The compromise I came with is - we have a nanny for younger siblings, who are out at all day activity clubs on the day. I said the nanny will take you to meet this girl in the centre, if there is anything about this that she doesn't like, i.e. there's other people with the girl, my daughter won't be left. Otherwise, she'll have 2 hours in indoor shopping centre with this girl, and the nanny will stay in the centre, and will take her home again at end.
TBH I don't even feel 100% comfortable about this but can't say why.
AIBU?
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christmaswrapping · 18/12/2010 20:49
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