Here's the deal...
I have a good friend who suspected some time ago that her husband was having an affair. She thought the OW was her best friend. Her DH and the OW convinced her that nothing had happened, that it was just flirting, and yes, it shouldn't have happened but no harm done. And they were sorry. I wasn't convinced at the time (lots of reasons, but far too long to go into here!), but friend decided to forgive and forget . At the same time OW defended herself with mutual friends by making out that my friend was a bit delusional and insecure and nothing had happened.
So, fast fwd nine months, and my friend is having a hard time getting past it all - unsurprisingly IMO - so decided to get counselling, realised that she needed more info from husband and had a showdown with him. So it turns out they did have an affair. For over 9 months. My friend's dd was only 3m old ffs! She has decided to file for divorce.
I have to see this woman at the school gates (all our dcs are same age) and I just can't be civil, or even look her in the face. I am so angry on behalf of my friend that it is all I can do not to say anything. And as it goes on, and more details come to light, I get more and more mad. What type of woman does this to her best friend? I feel as mad with him btw, but don't have to see him every bloody day! And all the time she smiles on, trying to make conversation as if nothing has happened.
So would you say something? Or should I stay out of it?
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To want to tell this woman exactly what I think of her
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lurkingsnurker · 13/12/2010 22:53
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