My ds birthday is new years eve and I hate it when people give him one present for christmas and easter.
We always give my sil children a christmas and birthday present. She has three children and in the past we spent about £30 each present. (Ie. roughly £60 a child or £180 a year)
This year has been an exception. We spent 6 months on income support as my husband lost his job. We only spent £5 a child on birthday presents. My husband has only recently started a new job and money has been incredibly tight. We are planning to spend £10 per child on christmas presents.
We aren't spending a lot on our own children. It has been a really tough year. I am not spending more on my SIL children than my own.
My SIL has decided to buy ds an alarm clock. she has decided that it should be a christmas and birthday present. I feel she is being mean. Both her husband and her are high income tax payers and money is not an issue. They are rolling in money.
a) It is important to acknowledge that a birthday and christmas are seperate celebrations.
b) Even if it was nominal. A child needs their birthday to recongised. A gift does not need to be expensive.
Am I being unreasonable to think she is being tight.
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To think my SIL is mean
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reallytired · 12/12/2010 22:31
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