to be absolutely stunned by this

[tundra]

I went out with my brother tonight and this guy came up to us and offered my brother £200 "to spend the night with him". Obviously my brother said no but then he said he'd pay 50 for a blowjob round the corner. I took over at this point and told him to back off and we quickly left and went to a different bar. The guy had clearly had a few drinks but I was totally at this, who just walks up to a random guy and offers him money for sex.

[hester]

It happens to women all the time, doesn't it?

[Marrow]

A man offered my DH £20 for a blowjob in a pub in Brighton. I don't think DH has ever left a pub so quickly!

[Pan]

you didn't get his number then? Oh well.

[tundra]

I guess it does happen to women a lot and he is a good looking boy.

[frgr]

Well i am also shocked by that, how odd - it's not just you. was it a gay club or something? or in a well known gay area? i'd be shocked if that happened to a woman too though, tbh

[tundra]

No it wasn't a gay bar or in a gay area.

[vixel]

YANBU I'd be shocked too. How did he know that you weren't boyfriend and girlfriend.

[ChippingIn]

Wow

Is your brother gay?

[tundra]

No my brother isn't gay

[frgr]

did he do a nudge him at the same time whilst looking around suspiciously? perhaps it was a code, like "the lark flies at dawn", but updated for a modern spy?

[numotre]

YANBU to be honest if it had been me I'd have been worried that he might follow you into whatever bar you went to next

[ChippingIn]

Well, that's even more weird then?! I think my brother might have decked him!

[MrsBonkers]

Could be worse, could have offered him a pombear...

And marrow when you say he left the pub quickly, did he really need the 20 that much

[tundra]

I was a bit worried that he might have followed us and I got him a taxi home as I didn't want him walking home alone in the dark, protective big sister that I am.

[ShanahansRevenge]

How come you took over? Is your brother younger?

[tundra]

Yeah he's only 20

[Pan]

So. Young good looking bloke gets offered by a gay bloke, who lacks confidence and fears he may have to get a bit drunk to summon up some dutch courage, loses what confidence he had when in the company of such a male adonis as your brother and so ends up fumbling some line about money when all he wanted was to be intimate and feel loved.
Poor bloke. We have all been there.

[TheRedSalamander]

Mrs bonkers and frgr I have just snorted tea through my nose

[onimolap]

At least this will have given you ammunition for years of inappropriate big-sister teasing about how your DB looks just like a prostitute.....

[frgr]

[locotitis]

YADNBU what a perv

[Anniegetyourgun]

I suppose it's just as well nobody offered me that much for my brother, because I'd probably have taken it.

[Disclaimer: I'm fond of my bro. But £200 is £200.]

[TrillianAstra]

Does this happen to women all the time really?

[TheFeministParent]

It doesn't happen to women all the time, well noone I know.

[beebuzzer]

My brother would have knocked his lights out.