I have an almost 4 year old daughter and in July 2005 lost my first daughter, Laura, at almost 42 weeks pregnant. I also suffered a missed miscarriage, picked up at 10 weeks, the month prior to conceiving my living child. Now my sister in law is 9 weeks pregnant and convinced she is carrying a girl. I do find it hard to be around pregnant women even now but hide it well and always take an interest, though it's painful for me. However, my sil keeps commenting about how disappointed she is that she is having a girl cos she really wants a boy (this is her first child). She said it again the other day in front of my parents and brother who I thought may have gently reminded her that maybe it was not a very sensitive thing to say in front of me, but no, they smiled indulgently. I am livid. I wanted to say something but it would have been said in anger and then, knowing my family, they would have accused me of trying to spoil her pregnancy with my negativity (or similar bollocks). I am angery on two levels, a: that my daughters are being disrespected, and b: that she has the temerity to complain about not getting the gender she wants to me who has lost 2 babies. Oh and I may as well add c: no fucker in my family stuck up for me of my kids.
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09/11/2010 08:15
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