Long time MN user but have NC for this.
A year ago DH drove drunk with the DCs in the car. He'd been drinking 60 units plus a week for many years. I threatened to leave, he tried to stop and managed a few weeks but couldn't stop completely.
A few months later at Christmas I became ill with a chronic condition. He admitted again he needed help and opened up to his family. His dad is an alcoholic who has been sober for 20 years. I thought he had made progress as he went to his GP and started an addiction programme. However he didn't continue on to AA as they recommended.
He now never drinks in the house or in front of me but there have been many times over the last few months when I know he has been drunk. Glassy eyes, slurring etc. A friend smelt it on him once in the afternoon. He has taken the DCs to the park, bought cans and drunk them while they play. If I ask him he denies being drunk but it's obvious he's lying.
He started anti depressant meds at Christmas and generally seems better in himself but he says he needs to quit and can't do it. On holiday he got drunk while in charge of the DCs. I got upset with him and he denied he had a problem but when sober the next day he went to an AA meeting where we were staying. This was a big step.
However he has been drunk at least once in the last week. I've asked him when the meeting is and he said hell look it up. I'm losing patience. As I'm ill and not working I'm fully financially dependent on him.
Any advice please 😢
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Bluewavescrashing · 31/08/2019 05:25
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