We start intros with our 7 month old LO next month. By the time she actually comes home, she'll be more like 8 months.
As you can imagine, grandparents (esp on my side, where she is the first) are desperate to see her.
They don't live in this country so would have to come for a weekend, though wouldn't stay with us, and would completely understand only coming for short visits.
I want to put her best interests first and fend them off until the right time.
So my question is - what's the right time? And does anyone have any links to good research or anything on this? (That would play very well with my DM )
I also know that when they do visit, we'd still be funnelling, so very happy with all that. Just don't know when it's OK for them to come...
Thanks very much
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Rainatnight · 15/01/2017 17:46
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