DP and I don't live together (too soon). He's currently flat hunting, and has shortlisted some flats he wants to go and see. They're all near to where I used to live. One of the flats is somewhere I went to a NYE party 15 odd years ago where I had my drink spiked and ended up having sex with someone because of it (not the person that spiked my drink but the guy had sex with me knowing that my drink had been spiked). It's been redecorated but it's clear from the layout and later finding out the block, it's definitely the one.
I don't know how to tell him. I'm going with him on viewings and I don't even want to set foot there. Just seeing the internal photos made me feel sick.
How/what do I tell him? He knows about the drink spiking incident but no detail and I don't want to have to bring it up again. Anyway, he's so excited about being able to buy somewhere I don't want to take the edge of it for him. I can try and put him off it, but I don't know how!
Any suggestions please?
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How do I tell DP I don't want him to view this flat?
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CoolYourBeansMySon · 29/11/2020 00:42
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