Someone is going to tell me 'dont expect strangers to diagnose you' but I've been to my GP three times saying I am worried I have PND but he says I dont.
I have one DS who is 10 months. He has been a crap sleeper until the last 3 months or so - now he will go through the night but more often than not is awake by 5.30, usually 5. His morning naps are usually good but sometimes he will only for for 30 mins for lunch. So I dont often get much me time which means I end up going to bed later.
DH is working crazy hours and we aren't on very good terms at the moment. He feels I criticise him and I feel he must does things wrong! Quick example- DH says 'DS's tea is fine'. I check it - its scalding hot.
I just feel so ground down and so so tired. DS often does 6-7 dirty nappies a day. I feel like if I'm not wiping a highchair or the floor im wiping a bottom of a baby who does not want to lie still.
I try and do a lot with him. We are part of a very active NCT group and I dont want to feel left out. This week we have been swimming, the park, a trip to the vets, a play group, 2x national trust sites, softplay, a petting farm/softplay place and I took him to a creche while I went to the gym. I have driven for about 3 hrs today (he fell asleep on the way back so I didnt want to interrupt his lunch time nap). This is quite a normal week for us.
We had his check last week and the HV said he was overweight and I cant spoonfeed him t all anymore so I'm trying to prepare healthy lunches for him - he isnt often spoon fed and I feed him very good food (e.g. i make him his own 'jam' using strawberries and chia seeds) but not being able to use the odd pouch is frustrating. It's also made me anxious about his weight because I thought he was ok.
I just want to hide from him and close my eyes.
I dont know whether this is:
A) normal tiredness - I do a lot
B) abnormal tiredness- I should be able to cope with this
If its B I dknt know whether it's a symptom of a mental or physical problem.
I dont really know what I'm expecting people to say. Just writing it down has helped a bit!
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Is it normal to feel this tired?!
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NeverGotMyPuppy · 19/07/2019 17:50
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