I always used to get my parents a trip away but my dad passed away almost 2 years ago and it's more of a struggle now to get gifts for my mum.
Last year I got really lucky and her favorite band when she was growing up had reunited so I got her tickets to that, a spa day with my MIL (don't think she enjoyed it - MIL is a bit of a PITA) and a gold necklace & wall canvas print from my DD.
I don't think I can even match that this year never mind beat it - she's difficult to buy for for the following reasons -
She's overweight and doesn't want you to buy her clothes because she wants to wait til she's slimmer - she never gets slimmer she actually gets bigger but is in denial.
She doesn't want sweets because she's on a diet!
She has tonnes of clothes, jewellery, watches, perfume etc
She doesn't read, watch films, have any hobbies etc and despite telling us how how bored and lonely she is a night she ignores any of our suggestions for possible hobby ideas.
I was thinking about getting her spa vouchers or something but then she needs to find someone other than me to go with her - child care reasons, work commitments make it tricky and we're not actually very close to each other - we don't dislike each other but we're very different and as bad as this will make me sound, I can't take too much time in her company before we start to bicker - we've just not got that mother daughter bond for a variety of reasons I won't go into here.
She really helps us out a lot childcare wise so I want to get her a really nice gift but have not idea what to get her!!
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Gift ideas for my hard to buy for mother
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kitkat321 · 11/11/2016 22:46
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