So last year, my sister and I came to blows over bonfire night (deemed to be a family night by myself and my parents), she had invited friends of hers (who I get on with, but am jealous of the womans relationship with my sister).
Words were exchanged and one of the things my sister said was that, I only attend family events I want to and swan off when I want to.
Now I can see where she is coming from with this, as she has the bigger house she hosts all the family get togethers as we just can't fit in my house. And after Christmas lunch the year before last we had to go to DH family. I helped set up and wash up and provided desert for everyone.
Anyway last Dec I was 8 months pregnant with DD and was VERY ill and can't remember most of december I was on that many pain killers. But before I got ill, the plan was for me DH and DS to spend the morning at home and visit PIL after lunch, as I didn't want to go to my sisters after what she had said to me.
My Dsis invited the same couple round for Christmas as she did for bonfire night and they had an amazing Christmas, still feel slightly jealous.
So I am now worried about this Christmas and what would be the best course of action. As much as my sister and I have made up (we are close) I have yet to receive an invitation and to be quite honest I don't think I'll get one.
The previous 4 years DS and I lived with my sister and have enjoyed family Christmas' together. This year will be the first year (touch wood) that we will have an independent Christmas just me, DH, DS and DD. How can I make myself feel like I won't be missing out?
Please don't tell me to talk to my Dsis about it. I don't think I could manage it.
I think I might just need a slap.
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Louboo2245 · 24/09/2012 20:30
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