Hi everyone,
I arranged to host a public talk at my workplace, which turned out to be really good and full of friendly, interesting people. However, my colleague's attitude really bugs me. They said to me that they were going to be there very loudly and enthusiastically in front of a client, and seemed really supportive. However, they never showed up and when I saw them two days later this week (we work in the same building/department) they didn't make any reference to what happened, or apologise for the no show to the talk which was weird. I appreciate they might be busy last minute or have an emergency, but do you think that was weird or rude? I feel really hurt and disappointed by them. Thoughts?
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Am I being unreasonable?
foreverhopeful2000 · 22/03/2024 01:10
foreverhopeful2000 · 22/03/2024 07:32
Hi,
I realise things come up - and even people lie about coming to something they don't want to come to. But to make no reference to it is weird when it was a big event in our department that he publicised through his department. This morning, whilst I'll continue being polite and professional, I'll learn my lesson not to rely on anyone. I like the Maya Angelou quote 'when people show you who they are, believe them the first time'.
BoredAuditor · 22/03/2024 07:50
In the nicest way possible, you're massively overthinking this.
BoredAuditor · 22/03/2024 07:50
In the nicest way possible, you're massively overthinking this.
foreverhopeful2000 · 22/03/2024 15:13
Thanks for the judgement!! I'd just rather people didn't bs in front of me and show off to clients with no intention of going. I don't think that's a nice thing to do, and I think I have every right to feel pissed off about it. I'd rather someone was honest and say they couldn't make it. And it would be good manners to either wish you the best - or apologise afterwards.
Editedforeverhopeful2000 · 22/03/2024 15:13
Thanks for the judgement!! I'd just rather people didn't bs in front of me and show off to clients with no intention of going. I don't think that's a nice thing to do, and I think I have every right to feel pissed off about it. I'd rather someone was honest and say they couldn't make it. And it would be good manners to either wish you the best - or apologise afterwards.
Editedforeverhopeful2000 · 22/03/2024 07:32
Hi,
I realise things come up - and even people lie about coming to something they don't want to come to. But to make no reference to it is weird when it was a big event in our department that he publicised through his department. This morning, whilst I'll continue being polite and professional, I'll learn my lesson not to rely on anyone. I like the Maya Angelou quote 'when people show you who they are, believe them the first time'.
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