Hi all,
I expect this post is similar to many that have been put on here over the years, but I need some help.
Here's my history in a nutshell. I'm 41 and have two children, 14 and. 11. I have a degree in Music and American Studies (why, oh why?!) In my 20s I worked at a university in alumni relations (sort of PR/Marketing). When I had my second child I gave work up for four years and so for the last 7-8 years I've flitted between various low-paid part-time jobs in retail and then four years ago I re-trained to become a Teaching Assistant. I work three days in a lovely local school and I do enjoy my job - mostly.
But somehow I just don't feel satisfied. I am lucky that my husband earns a decent wage, but in comparison my salary is minimal and to be honest I'm tired of him calling all the shots about where money is spent etc. Don't get me wrong, he never is mean and I am very lucky he is so good but I would like to contribute more and make this relationship more equal.
I have thought about training to be a teacher but everyone keeps putting me off. Has anyone else completely changed direction successfully? Has anyone else been a TA and changed career or used the qualification in other child-related careers?
Life seems hard at the moment. My mum has dementia and has been in a home for just over a year and I visit as often as possible. I guess this has stopped me from pursuing further training just now, but I suppose I can't continue to put my life on hold forever and there's always weekends.
Please help! I need positive stories to inspire me!!
Thanks for reading.
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cazb78 · 12/01/2020 16:31
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