I would be really grateful if anyone has any tips on settling an 8 month old with a childminder. My ds is normaly a really happy chap, who only cries if he's in pain, tired, humgry - all the usual. However, I currently have to leave him with a childminder who 4/5 days per week. I prepared the ground by leaving him for 1/2 days for 2 weeks & all seemed to go well - he settled great. Since I have left him for full days he has become quite distressed, he cries on & off all day & sometimes refuses to eat. He does have good days but today I collected him early as he had been crying for 1 1/2 hours.
We have tried all sorts of things - leaving familiar toys, more walks & different approaches when dropping him off. I am trying to work shorter days & taking more time off. Has anyone any new ideas??
I am getting increasingly upset, I hate the thought of him crying, I feel terribly guilty. Has anyone else had this problem?? Thanks.
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Help - any tips on settling an 8 month old with childminder?
melsam · 21/03/2002 21:56
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