Eidsvold/Starsky: As a nursery worker i would hope your child's carers give you a few forms to fill in about what your child's routine is etc, and ideally it would be good for you to both go through it and talk about any problems as they arise.
Main things for you to know depend on how relaxed you feel about everything. I would maybe suggest asking about food, is it freshly prepared, do they add salt+sugar,are they happy to accomodate what YOU want ie no dairy,sweet things, meat etc and ask how they make sure your child didn't have those things.
Do they have a feed back form/book at the end of the session to see what your child has been up to, it would be nice if they went through it with you, not just give it to you.
Are your children taken outside and how often, it can get pretty stuffy in one room all day.
What procedures are there if your child isn't settling in well..it sometimes happens but are they telling you if your child has been upset?
What activities they do for your child's developmental age ie) they're not giving your 8 month old 10 piece puzzles to do etc and ask about messy activities. The messier the better for their sensory development!
You may want to ask about first aiders, qualified members of staff (at LEAST 1 per room) and ratios (1-3 for under 2's)..it totally depends on how yu feel as to what you ask.
Things for them to know:
Sleep patterns: How,when, where and for how long does your child sleep. Though you may find your child's sleep pattern changes completely after starting nursery as there is so much more to do and noise going on around.You may find rocking them as you do may not work and they may have other suggestions. Give them a guide line and if you don't want them to sleep for three hours (yes some do, haha) ask them to wake them up or you may be awake all night. Take any comforter your child may have or if you are trying to ween them off a soother/blanket tell the girls so they know what to expect. One piece of advice though..if you are trying to do this don't take the comforter with you if you don't want them to use it!!!!
Tell them about you child's feeding habbits, likes and dislikes, how much milk they usually drink etc, though this should all be on the forms.
The nursery should be all for you and your child and what you want. Don't be afraid of asking for something, especially if your not happy. I know some nursery nurses can be a bit intimidating, especially if they have been there for years..but if you're not comfortable, there's always the supervisor or manager, depending on how your nursery is set out. A room full of 18 year olds is not a good place to put your child, look for somewhere which has a mixed age range if possible.If you haven't already found a nursery, don't always look for the big chain ones, in my experience smaller companies are a lot friendlier, but that is just my opinion.
I hope this is of some help to you both and indeed anyone else, and i hope i haven't waffled on too much..if there's anything else i would be happy to help if i can. Good Luck