I read this article in the Critic and enjoyed it. Perhaps it doesn't deserve its own thread but....well here we are.
https://thecritic.co.uk/leaving-kindland-entering-reality/
If anyone else might want to write why they left Kindland, if they never visited or, even, why they're still there, I think it'll be interesting. I think some insight into why people have taken different paths could be useful. Or a bloodbath. If you don't want to, I will apologise in advance, if you feel that is necessary, and kindly suggest just scroll on by and get on with your day😊.
As for me. I have a clear memory of talking to my oldest, then quite young, about transpeople. All the reasons why someone might go down that path. I probably didn't have all the current buzzwords but we probably covered dsds, born in the wrong body, etc. I don't recall who instigated the conversation (why the fuck was I talking about such stuff to a primary aged child!!?) but i do remember feeling quite smug about how 'kind' I was being. I had no idea, how could I, of what lay in store.
My next memory is of a similar conversation perhaps a year or so later. This time I remember voicing concern about bad people taking advantage. How to stop that while still being kind to 'genuine' tp.
The next memory is crashing into MN. How I got here, I can't remember but I'm glad I found FWR.
I wish I could go back and get ahead of it, educate my kids before they were indoctrinated by kindness. And I'm lucky, so far, neither have adopted a trans identity requiring drugs, hormones or surgery.
Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
Leaving Kindland
IcakethereforeIam · 26/03/2024 11:28
Leaving Kindland, entering reality | Nicky Clark | The Critic Magazine
“Being kind” at the expense of truth and reason can make us nothing of the kind…
https://thecritic.co.uk/leaving-kindland-entering-reality
ladygindiva · 26/03/2024 22:34
Ive never been in Kindland or anywhere near it because I'm obsessive about truth, honesty, and hard facts. Delighted and proud I have a 25 yo DD who has never wavered in her belief in truth either, despite being surrounded by peers who are fully subscribed twaw etc.
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Crankywiddershins · 27/03/2024 06:27
@GenderlessVoid thank you so much for sharing your story. It is one of the most powerful things I've read about surviving abuse, and I say that as another survivor.
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