@AntiSocialInjusticePacifist. Happy to discuss more.
Although we likely part company when you talk about an entire restructuring of the world of professional life, as I think you'll find as we discuss it that it isn't structed just to revolve around men's lives, in fact lower down the economic scale we have to keep a hell of a weather eye on industrial accidents which do disproportionately affect men (particularly in the west), so I think you have one hell of a case to make before you can claim the world of work caters to men specifically.
I think this is interesting because as is often the case, the assumption that is if something is designed for traditional male, it must always benefit that male. Which I would disagree with.
Work is designed for default male - ie few home/childcare responsibilities, flexibility etc etc, yes. This is particularly true in the corporate world. In the case of more manual/"blue collar" type work, there's obviously tradition of men doing this work (and of course, Invisible Woman makes all those interesting points about how these factories/work environments have been designed for the male body). In both cases, I'd argue that men are also negatively impacted by this default male. In the corporate world, of course, it means they have the power and the money so that's a plus. But we also know that this approach has impacts on men's mental health, family life, health etc. And absolutely, many men are at risk from work related injuries due to the physical nature of their job (and possibly, insufficient safety/training etc - which is likely a class issue and a lack of concern for the "working" class vs the elite. But that's a separate conversation. )
But let's talk about the corporate world. There's been lots of discussion regarding the gender pay gap. Lots of agreement it's because women take maternity leave, have more caring responsibilities etc etc. To your point - corporates are there to make money and the hours put in lead to more money so men benefit. Personally, yes, I do think an adjustment in this thinking, or at least a more balanced approach would be useful. Not least to improve the quality of life and mental health of all members of our society. But let's put that aside for now and discuss OTHER reasons for the gender pay gap.
Law firms, accounting firms etc for example, have spent a lot of time discussing the issue of billable hours. Billable hours are a key metric in promotion, compensation etc. And women's billable hours tend to be lower. Default is to assume that this is because women have to leave the office on time/start late/ work part time etc. This is at least part of it. However, when firms look at the numbers, another thing they often find is that even when the women are IN the office, their proportion of billable hours is lower than the male equivalents. Why is that? Suggestions include that women are given more non-billable tasks, women are not automatically selected for new billable work, women are not billing as accurately/generously as men. So these are all things that could and should be addressed.
Similarly, performance reviews. Many city firms are trying to work out how to deal with the fact that when you separate performance reviews by male/female, the average for men is better than the average for women, often by a significant amount. This seems odd when you'd consider that overall, on average, you'd expect competency variables to be the same. This level of unconscious (or conscious) bias and opinion-forming based on male behaviours etc is a huge problem that HR departments are actively trying to figure out how to eradicate. (and yes, this is where we get into the "Strident" vs "assertive" of performance review language).
We also know gender plays a huge role in job recruitment. And frankly, this is true across recruitment, politics etc. Women's only shortlists make me instinctively cringe. However, when you consider how often a man is elected over a woman, it's hard to believe that there isn't discrimination going on. I'd have to go find statistics but I remember seeing some pretty clear ones whereby in elections with a male and female candidate, the male candidate is significantly more likely to win. Again, I'm not buying the theory that all these men just happen to be better. Not least when looked at empirically, we can see that many are useless and incompetent.
So yes, I'm still absolutely clear that there are much bigger societal issues at play here and that it's far more complex than just how women are treated in the workplace. And it may turn me (and DH) into slightly rabid feminists who are constantly lecturing both DD and DS if they so much as suggest that only girls can wear pink or whatever, or made DH want to punch a man in the face when he heard him telling his toddler son to stop "crying like a girl" but it doesn't change the fact that there are things inherent in the workplace that work against women and benefit men.