Artificial womb are a neutral technology there is nothing to be afraid of.
I don't think you've read the responses - it's not the wombs that are the problem here, it's that historically, whenever there's progress, some man finds a way to use it against women.
women have had this option since the beginning of our species
Not quite. Up until recently, women didn't have an option at all - it was pretty much obligatory. Plenty of women had kid after kid until they hit menopause or died. Then their husbands got themselves a new wife to look after the kids (and possibly have some more), or had their daughters look after them.
There's plenty of ways women have been abused through their ability to have kids, I wouldn't be at all surprised to see artificial wombs and artificially made eggs put to horrific purposes too.