I agree with what you have said Matilda. Though I honestly think we need to get away from pomo, it is like trying to swim with a lead weight dragging you down. I think a class analysis is the best way to understand the situation, and radical feminism provides that. The fact is what we are experiencing now is a backlash against feminism, women first have to be aware of that. The idea of transing, that porn is harmless, prostitution is just a job option. That the sexualisation of young girls is about freedom of expression. That BDSM is a fun choice, or an innate desire that has been unfairly maligned. That plastic surgery is empowering etc. All these things are part of that backlash against feminism.
They are made intellectually acceptable and justified by the male leftist ideology of queer theory. Which (along with their invention of pomo) renders women incapable of realising it and fighting it. Through a radical feminist class analysis, we can understand the reason men have done this; because they want to use us for sex. They can't come out and just demand that women do this or that without looking like oppressors. So they use manipulation (these ideologies) to fool women into allowing men to do whatever they want. And to get women ourselves to do whatever pleases men. The granting of Mtt's access to women's spaces does not just serve individual het men who have AGP or who want to practice voyeurism, flashing ect., it is just part of a bigger project men have. Leftist men want to keep us in the bedroom.
The male right also wants to control women. They generally are more concerned with keeping women out of public life and confined to the home. They have also got an ideology gaining traction at the moment; evolutionary psychology, which claims that the sex roles are innate.
So women are under threat from both the male left and the male right, because of the gains we made in the 70's. They have used the science that they have at their disposal to make these ideologies seem more legitimate. For example they use neuroscience to come up with 'brain sex'. This is used to give more credibility to these ideologies, as the 'natural' sciences carries more prestige than the social sciences. There are numerous ways that science can be manipulated to come up with the results these men desire. At present it is mostly achieved by using small sample sizes.
In the victorian era very similar ideas about female brains were used to keep women in our place. And the idea that homosexuals were born in the wrong body, led to various horrendous 'cures'. The same was also said about races and strikingly similar experiments were performed to prove the existence of a 'negro brain'. This was part of the eugenics movement, that started very similarly to how this situation is manifesting. With the sterilisation of children that is taking place, I think the similarities are difficult to ignore.
It also serves the drug companies, who can sell hormones to these people and make money off them. Psychiatry is dependant on the drugs companies, so they will do whatever benefits them. Psychiatry itself also has a long and sinister history of harming people, particularly women and homosexuals.