Leithlurker: "these discussions always have this prostitution focus"
Well, yes, in case you hadn't noticed, the linked article is about the use of prostitutes by residents of a care home.
So people who are opposed to prostitution, on feminist / ethical / human decency grounds, are going to be opposed to that.
And yet it was implied of posters who expressed those views early on that we were using our objection to the exploitation of prostituted women, to mask our disgust at the idea of disabled people having sex.
That's why I gave up posting and possibly why others didn't bother to start. If you expect people who are educated about the realities of prostitution to just ignore the implications of exploitation for fear of being accused that what we're really doing is using able-bodied privilege (and Leithlurker, you were very quick to assume that of a poster who has since said that she herself is disabled), it is impossible to have a reasoned discussion about the topic of the thread. The thread is about prostitution.
If this were a thread about the broader question of how people with disabilities should be better supported / facilitated in meeting their sexual desires, I'd imagine that possibilities might be discussed, including surrogates, sex therapists, match-making services, whatever. And the extent to which any of those options might blur the lines into prostitution might come up as a point of debate, and hopefully that could be discussed respectfully between people with opposing viewpoints who could agree that 1. it's perfectly normal and healthy for people with disabilities to desire sex and 2. exploitation of other people's desperation in order to access their bodies is a line that should never be crossed, regardless of who the 'client' is.
This thread was started about a particular article, and that article is about the use of prostituted women (I didn't see any mention of men, did you?) who, by the absence of any indication to the contrary, appear to be part of the general population of prostitutes in their area. They're not described as sex therapists, or surrogates, or volunteers.
Spero, you've been very balanced in your posts and have said that you'd be concerned about exploitation. But prostitution is exploitative by nature, and there's certainly nothing in article linked in the OP to suggest that there's anything other than exploitation going on there. The care home staff don't like being "groped", so they help the residents buy in prostituted women to get groped instead . The "happy hooker" myth is just that. It's a myth. It is very, very unlikely that these are carefree, empowered businesswomen, taking part in a mutually beneficial transaction with no cost to their human dignity or their sense of self.