Hi all. My daughter is very soon to be nine months. She has always refused a bottle and so until we started weaning her at six months, she was exclusively breast fed. Lots of people said that she would probably transition straight to a cup.
However, she still refuses to drink from a cup after nearly three months of trying. We have tried putting expressed breast milk instead of water in the cup, but she refuses both. We are not ever forcing her to drink, but modelling how to use the cup and trying to at least hold it to her mouth, but she pushes it away with her hands and closes her mouth. On the rare occasion that we have managed to tip the cup enough to get water into her mouth, she is shocked by it and of course will spit a lot out. This is the same whether we use a traditional sippy cup, an open (Doidy) cup or a cup with a weighted straw. At best she will play with the cup and shake it like a rattle.
Additionally, any finger food we give to her ends up on the floor. She will not feed herself but will eat from the spoon well. She is on two meals a day (lunch and dinner) but refuses breakfast (I don’t think she is hungry upon waking as she still feeds overnight). Again, we are modelling how to eat finger foods but she is uninterested. Any advice gratefully welcomed, as I am conscious that we will see the health visitor at 10 months and they are likely to ask about the above. Thank you!
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SilentRefluxAdvicePlease · 10/02/2024 15:04
Starrysky812 · 10/02/2024 17:35
Thanks @CadyEastman
All NHS website pages that I've seen about weaning say that cooked cows milk is fine before 1 but that babies shouldn't be drinking straight up cows milk till after 1.
This site also has good detail about rationale for why that is advised but I understand WebMD might not be the most accurate site!
www.webmd.com/parenting/baby/cows-milk-for-babies
It's also in all the literature I got from my health visitor and she repeatedly emphasised that we shouldn't be giving DD cows milk to drink till after she was 1.
Starrysky812 · 10/02/2024 17:51
@CadyEastman I'm not meaning to be disagreeable. Of course it's up to any parent to choose what to feed their child and when. The guidance I have been given by my health visitor and at local authority baby groups I attended last year with DD is that children under 1 shouldn't be drinking any cows milk. They can have it cooked in food but shouldn't be having any as a drink - main drink or occasional drink. I'm in Scotland though so perhaps guidance is different here to other parts of the UK.
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