Are there any mums out there with horsey children who find it painful to ride?
DD (8) loves her pony and rides every day (flatwork only - wants to be a dressage rider). She has dyslexic/dyspraxic traits and needs to ride so she can tell her left from her right and cope with the constant stress that comes with being an aspiring scientist who struggles to read and write. We have only recently realised why she is 'different' in some ways and have got other specialist support for her now as well. She can click her fingers in and out of place so may be hypermobile.
She came off a couple of weeks ago. Some lower back pain initially but seemed fine after a bath and was back in the saddle the following day. A couple of days ago, she began to cry when riding because of pelvic pain that moves around the pelvic girdle. It isn't a problem off the pony unless she's running but it did surface when she was trying to sleep tonight. I've just been told she has had to click her hip in the morning to get it into place.
We have a close family member who has life-changing mechanical stability problems related to her pelvis following an old riding injury that surfaced during pregnancy. DD is very like her. I feel between a rock and a hard place. I honestly don't know how DD will cope emotionally if she can't ride. The pony is on our land, literally peering over the garden fence and it's the highlight of each and every day. But we do have this constant reminder (in the family member) that riding is a risk sport and can lead to disability.
I'm not a horsey mum at all really. This is what she wanted to do from a very young age and she seemed so 'different' to other children that we were desperate to engage her and help her find an interest. Riding has been the making of her. Please don't tell me I'm selfish to make her ride/not let her ride. I'm just trying to work out what's best for her to do next. She does have regular instructors who travel to us and who we travel to but obviously they're not physiotherapists.
We live in a remote area and it's hard to know where to start with a children's/equestrian (?) physiotherapist in the current circumstances. I'm also scared to have her do exercises until she's been assessed for hypermobility.
Can anyone share their advice or experience? I'm sure we're not the first family in this position and I would love to hear from someone who has been there or knows more about children who ride.
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Dyslexic daughter who has to ride - hypermobility and pelvic pain.
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botchpotch · 18/08/2020 01:17
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