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ComfyCosyGood · 19/06/2020 17:19

Hi there!

I adopted my DCat two and a half years ago and I'm finally at my wits end with her peeing.

A bit of background- I am DCat's 8th owner and she is now 8 years old. I got her unspayed and in awful condition and she was spayed within the first week of me having her. That week I also unexpectedly became pregnant with DS, who is now 18 months old.

She has always, throughout the two and a half years, had problems peeing (and occasionally pooing) everywhere. In my previous flat it was by every door and window, and in the house I have now she pees anywhere she can. Mostly at the bottom of the stairs and next to my bed, though also in DS's cot, any sink, the bath, DS's toys, sofa cushions, blankets, shoes, clean washing.

I have tried everything. I used Feliway for a year with no difference. Ive tried pepper, chilli, dry cat food where she pees, she just pees somewhere else. I've put the litter tray in dark, private places and open places. She has unscented litter, cleaned once a week and scooped the rest of the time. She wouldn't poo on clumping litter so she has non-clumping CatSan. She goes outside most of the day (unfortunately I cannot have a cat flap) and seems happy but fights often with other cats. If I keep her in at night she poos downstairs (her tray is upstairs and she goes in it during the day, and always has access to it) so I've started have to put her out at night which she hates.

She's also the fussiest cat I've ever known with food. She won't eat anything in jelly or gravy, will only eat pate's but hates Sheba and any "mixed" flavours like chicken and salmon, it has to be one or the other. As a result she's very expensive to feed.

But my main issue is that as DS is getting older it's so much harder cleaning up wee all the time. My house stinks of it as she pees no matter how much I clean it up, it's seeped into my wooden stairs and I don't think I'll ever be able to get rid of the smell. And worst of all, DS almost touched a pee puddle this moshed left at the bottom of the stairs as he's now walking everywhere. I'm just at a loss of what I can do.

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Htbrinks · 24/06/2020 19:23

Cats once they pee can smell it even if we can't get some extreme pet odour remover it really works.
We actually put ours out at night with some food cats are nocturnal anyway.

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BlueTreeBlue · 24/06/2020 19:18

Well done on all your hard work, you are clearly a very dedicated owner! I hope she continues improving.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 24/06/2020 16:34

Would a carpet shampoo machine or an electric spot cleaner be of use to you?. I think Bissell do a spot cleaner.

If you’ve got an empty pump spray bottle you can mist neat simple solution over the area and let it dry.

Bicarbonate of soda can be used on carpets, sprinkle it over on dry areas and leave 24hrs then vacuum. It’s non toxic if the baby gets it on his hands.

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ComfyCosyGood · 24/06/2020 14:53

@12345ct I hate it. I hate that I feel my house is gross and DS has to breathe it in. But I love her more. It's just tough.

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ComfyCosyGood · 24/06/2020 14:51

@Ze1tGeist Your boy is adorable!!

Realistically there's no way she's stay inside. She acts like she's kept trapped in and bolts outside all silly. Like the back window is open whenever I'm home and she comes and goes as she pleases. But if she's inside and I open the front door she acts like it's her one chance to escape and runs like mad. I find it funny and cute but I'd never be able to keep her in while trying to get DS out the door and she's flourished more being outside except for being territorial. But she loves going off and exploring. I'm glad your boy is doing well, he looks pampered!

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Fluffycloudland77 · 24/06/2020 14:42

He’s a gorgeous boy, his fur looks like it’s velvet.

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vanillandhoney · 24/06/2020 14:29

@Ze1tGeist

Cat Tax: paid in full. here he is.

Your cat looks so much like mine it's uncanny!
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BeautifulCrazy · 24/06/2020 14:29

I’m so pleased that things have improved for you and your cat. We had a cat who used to wee everywhere and was very nervous. She did improve over the years, she had been dumped in the middle of nowhere before we had her and it took her years to fully trust us. She was the most loving cat but it was very hard dealing with her problems at times but it was easier as the kids got older. I really hope things keep improving. She sounds very loved.

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Ze1tGeist · 24/06/2020 14:23

Cat Tax: paid in full. here he is.

Cat pees everywhere
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Ze1tGeist · 24/06/2020 14:18

(when i say flourished - he was almost totally silent except for anxious meowing at food time. he now chats away to me, lots of chirps and trills and he purrs with a huge rumble. he spends his days either crashed out on the sofa with me, or keeping an eye on the wildlife through the window. he’s not very street-smart and we have very bold foxes so i’m happier with him indoors)

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Ze1tGeist · 24/06/2020 14:15

just a suggestion, but would she be happier as an indoor cat? you say that she goes out during the day and fights with other cats, so her stress levels will always be high - she’s permanently in ‘fight or flight’ mode.

if you take the territorial issues away she might have more confidence in the home. you say she was kept in one room by a previous owner - maybe having too much freedom is just too much for her.

i’m not at all suggesting you keep her confined. let her have the run of the house but stop letting her out for a bit?

i have a rescue boy and last year we were living at my ex’s house with 3 other cats. my boy liked just sitting on a dog kennel outside the kitchen window - he’s never gone very far. then my ex’s son introduced his male cat to the household without doing it properly and my boy just disappeared. he spent all day hiding and was very anxious around food.

i now live by myself in a small flat. my boy came with me and is now a gloriously happy indoor cat. he’s flourished since he came here and is thriving being the only cat in a smaller household.

just an idea. your cat may hate being kept in, it’s just a thought that maybe you can rebuild her confidence a bit.

good luck!

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12345ct · 24/06/2020 14:06

I hope you find a solution OP I could never have a house that smells of cat pee especially with a toddler it's so unhealthy and disgusting. Sorry your going through this.

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GarlicSoup · 24/06/2020 13:47

Have you had her checked for cystitis? This can be treated by the Vet. Apparently they go somewhere ‘soft’ rather than on the litter as it hurts to wee.

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vanillandhoney · 24/06/2020 13:44

I'm so glad things are moving in the right direction!

Fingers crossed they continue that way Flowers

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Fluffycloudland77 · 24/06/2020 13:26

😺

I hope she carries on improving. Your doing all the right things.

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ComfyCosyGood · 24/06/2020 13:11

Also Simple Solution is what I got, about five bottles of it, but I'm waiting until I get more feliway to calm her down first.

I'm so grateful for everyone's advice, she's already improving. Her tray is now where DS can't go (I have put a baby gate on the bathroom door this morning) so that's no longer a stress for DCat.

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ComfyCosyGood · 24/06/2020 13:09

Sorry a quick reply as I'm sorting DS's lunch but yes she is now on Cystease, those are the tablets I gave her last night and will keep doing. I've just switched her litter from CatSan to ultra clumping and SHE JUST DID A POO IN HER TRAY!!! I'm very proud already! I wasn't in the house so she normally poos out of the tray when I'm not here but she still went in the tray. She got lots of praise and a treat.

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vanillandhoney · 24/06/2020 12:17

I know you said you've tried different types of Catsan but have you tried her with wood chip litter? My first kitten came from a farm and wouldn't use anything like Catsan - she was used to wood chip/sawdust for doing her business and nothing I did would persuade her that "regular" litter was okay!

We now have three cats and they all use woodchip without a problem - it's cheaper and biodegradable too - if you've not tried it, it might be worth a go. And if your toddler can open the lid, you may need to put the trays up high. We have a dog who would feast on the litter trays so they're all kept up high out of his reach and all the cats including our recent 12 week old addition manage to use them just fine. If you haven't tried that, it could be worth a go.

However if you're struggling with your MH there is nothing wrong with admitting that it's not working and rehoming the cat via a reputable rescue. While I'm all for pets being a lifelong commitment, it's not fair when the pet and owner are suffering for it.

Be kind to yourself Flowers

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Fluffycloudland77 · 24/06/2020 11:47

Tbh at 8 with a known history of weeing pts might be better. Farm cats are expected to live outdoors and she’s not feral so probably not ideal.

Your cleaning products aren’t dealing with it though if you can still smell the wee. My Bengal sprayed in the house when he had UTI and the simple solution meant it didn’t smell. If it had smelt dh would have told me all about it.

Is she on Cystease?.

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justanotherneighinparadise · 24/06/2020 09:35

*rehome

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justanotherneighinparadise · 24/06/2020 09:35

I am giving you permission to try and revoke the cat. You didn’t do anything wrong. You have tried your best but unfortunately your cat needs a different fit to the home you are offering. If you contact various rescue centres you may be able to put the cat on a waiting list for them to take the cat in. You will have to be honest about the issues as they need to know how to rehome them abs you will need to be honest with yourself that the cat may end up being euthanased. Once we take on responsibility for an animal it’s important we accept the worst case scenario. But I still stand by my initial post which is YOUR mental health is more important and so is your child’s right to live in a sanitary environment.

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ComfyCosyGood · 24/06/2020 09:30

@justanotherneighinparadise I do feel like it a lot. DS is also the clingiest baby/toddler I've ever known and is on me in a baby carrier or being carried most of the day and I feel like trying to remember everything for a toddler (keeping gates closed, carrying up and down stairs whenever I need a wee, always watching him) plus trying to keep the cat happy and clean up wee every day, plus my home absolutely stinking of pee is affecting me so much. It's getting overwhelming and I genuinely never get five minutes to myself because there's always something. I know it's not DS's or the cats fault but I got a hard lot and it's breaking me.

(DS's issues are a whole other thread but it's definitely not just a phase, it's been going on for 14 months and the doctors and health visitors have no answers)

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Fluffycloudland77 · 24/06/2020 09:24

I was watching Jackson galaxy on YouTube and he said to take the lids off hooded trays.

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justanotherneighinparadise · 24/06/2020 09:19

Honestly you have the right to not live your life like this. I’ve lived this with a previous cat and in the end I rehomed him to a friend who had a huge house with loads of outbuildings and he had a wonderful five years pottering around her estate.

The depression that comes with constantly dealing with urine on top of caring for a baby shouldn’t be dismissed. Your mental health and the need for your child to live in a sanitary environment comes above the needs of a cat.

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ComfyCosyGood · 24/06/2020 09:17

The litter tray has a hood, but the toddler can still open the flap, he's not stupid.

Because it's a rented house and I've asked the landlord multiple times, the answer is always no.

She had an option of a second tray for six months. It was never, ever used and was the larger of the two, also with a hood. She seems to much prefer the one she has and it was a complete waste of litter as in six months there wasn't even one wee.

I've never said it's her fault because of course it's not. I'm assuming you didn't RTFT?

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