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Worried about kitten (neglect)

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BirthdayBeast · 24/11/2017 17:08

Long story short, I accumulated a cat earlier this year (from an evicted neighbour) that turned out to be pregnant. Cat had four healthy kittens which I advertised locally. I made sure all kittens went to what I thought would be a good home and not to some creep wanting to feed them to snakes- two went to family members and two went to friends. I thought that would be the end of it however one of the family members has turned out to be the worst cat ownership .

Him and his girlfriend were so keen to have a kitten, bought everything they needed for it, got her vaccinated, flea and worm treatment, spent a lot of time playing with her and giving her attention, got her spayed etc etc. It started so well. However, after not treating her for fleas since the initial dose she has developed a bad flea problem and this has caused a deterioration in their care of her. This family member is so angry that she has fleas (due to his failure in protecting her) that he has banished her from the house into the internal porch. She basically lives in an area about 2 metres square. She spends all her time alone, cries constantly and is starved of any love and attention. Her litter tray stinks and she refuses to poo in it which has made the family member even angrier with her. Her water bowl is usually empty- the family member says it has to stay empty otherwise she tips it over and makes a mess everywhere. The family member is awful to the cat and torments her constantly by pushing her around the place with his foot, forcing her head down onto the floor, blocking her escape etc etc. Nothing that leaves a physical mark, but constantly upsetting/scaring the cat. I feel absolutely sick to my stomach at his treatment of the cat. I initially reported this to the RSPCA who did visit the family member but nothing came from it as the cat looks well cared for and is still affectionate to those who give her affection. The family member was outraged at being reported so when they mentioned it to me I mentioned that actually the care they gave the cat wasn't very good (they don't know I reported them and think it was a neighbour they recently fell out with). I also said that if they don't want the cat anymore then I would take her back and keep her myself. The family member wanted me to take her as he "hates" the cat but his girlfriend got upset and refused the offer (even though she ignores the cat most of the time). I am now stuck as to what I can do. I cant bear seeing (and knowing) that this cat is neglected most of the time and tormented the rest of the time. The RSPCA didn't do anything and my offer has been rejected. What can anyone suggest? Sad

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TidyLike · 31/12/2017 19:58

Only just seen this update - great news! And thank you for not turning a blind eye birthday xx

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DownTheChimney · 02/12/2017 15:20

Oh, well done Birthday and well done your Mum Smile

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Acrosstheuniverse123 · 02/12/2017 09:34

I just hope those arse holes don't ever get their hands on another animal. It doesn't sound like the RSPCA have logged them.

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snorkmaiden68 · 30/11/2017 22:41

Ah bless her. She ll have a lovely life with your mum. I m so glad you got her back Smile

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PippaPiper · 30/11/2017 19:56

Pleased to see the cat has been rescued from this pair of thundercunts Angry

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BirthdayBeast · 30/11/2017 19:45

Across, I totally agree. It felt like such a huge task having to responsibly rehome the kittens and I was relieved when the family member offered to take one of them as I thought they were responsible decent people. I had no idea how cruel and useless they would be at looking after her. Anyway, good news...the kitten has really come out of her shell today and been following my mum everywhere. She even sat on her lap. She's like a different cat. She's still got a way to go but already there are big improvements so I'm happy, and more importantly, so is she.

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Acrosstheuniverse123 · 30/11/2017 19:24

What a massive relief. I have also been worrying. It just shows the dangers of rehoming kittens and puppies if proper checks aren't made. I know the op knew the family member etc, but the number of people selling for profit who don't know where the animals are going makes my blood run cold. I hope this little one has a very happy life from now on.

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ShmooBooMoo · 30/11/2017 16:21

BirthdayBeast

I can't tell you how relieved and delighted I am to read your update! This little kitten has dominated my thoughts all week! Her life will be transformed with your mum! And, you'll be able to see her too! :)
It's no loss that the animal abusers have fallen out with you... The family members who sided with them are no loss either! No one needs people like that in their life, family or not!
You did a wonderful thing for this lovely kitten - thank you!
Ps. Maybe a new name for kitty to mark the start of a new life? :)

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Wolfiefan · 29/11/2017 20:36

I'm so pleased for her. Sorry they can't act like normal human beings. Their loss.

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EarlGreyT · 29/11/2017 20:34

That’s great news. Well done.

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Chardonnay73 · 29/11/2017 19:23

Well done you, so pleased to hear she will have a happy life now, and as she's so young there shouldn't be any lasting damage. It can't have been easy but you've done the right thing.

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Wrongwayup · 29/11/2017 19:03

Well done you. X

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Fluffycloudland77 · 29/11/2017 18:56

Quite right. It's not easy to do but you did really well.

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timtam23 · 29/11/2017 18:49

I'm glad you rescued the poor creature, I'm sure she'll have a lovely life with your mum

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thecatneuterer · 29/11/2017 18:22

Great news. Indeed. You can do without people like that in your life -family or not.

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BirthdayBeast · 29/11/2017 18:08

Sorry for the late reply. It's been a difficult week as this has caused all sorts of issues between myself and the family. However, the good news is that the kitten was handed over to myself earlier this week and has now been relocated to my mum's house. She was very timid to start with (understandably) but she's started coming out of her shell today and wanting to sit next to my mum rather than hiding away. Hopefully she'll continue to improve with the love affection she deserves. I'm no longer on speaking terms with the family member, as well as a few other family members, but I can live with that- I don't want to be associated with animal abusers.

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Venusflytwat · 29/11/2017 15:17

Just pop round “for coffee”.

Walk in, straight to hallway.
Take cat, walk out quickly.

What bastards.

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loopsdefruit · 29/11/2017 15:13

That poor cat :( place marking for a hopefully positive update

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ShmooBooMoo · 29/11/2017 14:39

Please update us, OP.

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Acrosstheuniverse123 · 26/11/2017 17:01

This is plain awful. For gods sake just get that cat out and be quick about it. I had a neighbour with two cats who were neglected and half starved. It broke my heart. Someone just took one of them out of pity and the other one was run over.

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snorkmaiden68 · 26/11/2017 16:55

She should be in the warm with people who love her. How anyone can ignore a kitten s crying is beyond me. It s a sound that tears at your heart.

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TidyLike · 26/11/2017 16:27

Yes ... also breaks my heart that the RSPCA found that she's still affectionate, even after all the abuse and neglect she's enduring. Darling trusting little animal deserves better than the couple of shits who are 'looking after' her.

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Chardonnay73 · 26/11/2017 14:39

And me. Kept thinking of her yesterday in that freezing cold porch crying Sad

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TidyLike · 26/11/2017 14:25

Me too Snork ... OP please update us?

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snorkmaiden68 · 26/11/2017 11:41

I really want to know if this little cat has been rescued by now?

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