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Taking on an abandoned kitten - first time cat owner.

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ChristmasPuddingsAndMincePies · 20/12/2012 10:01

I've been asked by a friend of a friend if we can home a kitten which she found abandoned on her doorstep. I haven't seen the kitten yet, have no idea how old it is, what sex, etc., only that it is ginger!

We've wanted a cat for a while, but expected that we'd probably adopt an older cat from a home. I've never owned a cat before (DP has), & know virtually nothing about kittens.

What do we need to buy? I've read about needing a room to keep the cat in, away from the bustle of the rest of the house - we have a utility room which should be good for that. We don't have a cat flap, but I think you're supposed to keep cats inside for a while when they move in anyway?

How do you choose a vet? & when should I take the kitten for vaccinations?

Argh! I'm panicking, but so excited. I mostly wanted to ask questions, but partly wanted to be openly excited about the new addition to the family Grin

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ChristmasPuddingsAndMincePies · 20/12/2012 22:06

Now? She went & lay on the floor for a bit, but she's come back & snuggled on my lap with her face in my armpit, purring.

She had a whole pouch of food when she got here (one that they gave us) - I tried her with half first, but she miaowed for more & she finished all of it. Do cats over eat, or do they self-regulate? & when should we feed her next? Although she did make it fairly obvious what she wanted, so I'm not worried she'll starve!

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cozietoesie · 20/12/2012 22:10

Now.

S/he looks (as far as I can see) about 6 months old. That's practically grown up. And so confident!

Some cats self-regulate and some are pigs but as s/he's only a little 'un, I'd give her some supper as well before you attempt to put her to bed. Has the tray been used yet?

(And make sure to have a bowl of water left out for her.)

Lovely kitty.

Xmas Smile

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ChristmasPuddingsAndMincePies · 20/12/2012 22:14

When we got home, she found the tray straight away & used it. She didn't wee in the car, but waited! DS has only just mastered that!

She has a bowl of water already, although she's not had any - her food was wet though.

She's off exploring again now because DP just put the washing machine on & she is curious about the noise. She has settled in so fast!

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cozietoesie · 20/12/2012 22:14

Thinking about it - in my experience, I'd say the great majority of cats self regulate but it's best not to rely on that with a kitten. While ensuring, of course, that they're fully fed.

Xmas Smile

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cozietoesie · 20/12/2012 22:15

Now aren't you the lucky ones.Xmas Smile She looks completely at home already in that picture. I reckon you'll find a little body attempting to get into your bed tonight.

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aufaniae · 20/12/2012 22:17

Awwww :) S/he looks lovely.

I'm Envy !

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cozietoesie · 20/12/2012 22:18

PS - is it a male or a female ? (Assuming you've managed to lift the tail and have a look.)

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Fluffycloudland77 · 20/12/2012 22:21

Aah she's got those long coltish legs like mine had at that age.

Definitely a girl then?

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Mibby · 20/12/2012 22:23

Lovely Picture :) Congratulations on your new arrival.

Once shes settled a bit you might want to try her with dry cat food, then she cat eat as much/ when she wants which will help with self-regulation although she might eat a lot for the first few days till she figures out the food wont run out.

once Xmas is over, please get her vet checked and neutered tho. PLEASE. Shes almost old enough for kittens which would be bad for her and expensive for you

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Viewofthehills · 20/12/2012 22:53

S/he is gorgeous. Congratulations Smile

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sashh · 21/12/2012 02:13

Have the litter tray set up before you bring kitten home. The first thing kitten needs to see is the litter tray so open the carrier there.

You will need bowls for food and water.

Personally I'd book in with a vet fairly soon. They can do a health check, tell you the age of the kitten, tell you about vacinations and nutering.

It's a really good time to take a kitten to the vet, you will remember every year that kitty is due for vacinations.

Most, but not all, ginger cats are male.

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ChristmasPuddingsAndMincePies · 21/12/2012 09:13

She's definitely a girl :)

She spent the night on a blanket on the sofa, without destroying anything or forgetting her litter tray. I can't imagine why anyone would abandon her! Confused

DS keeps trying to share his toys with her, but she just looks at him with vague cat disdain Grin She's been very patient with him so far though, & he leaves her alone when I tell him to. All is well so far!

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SuoceraBlues · 21/12/2012 09:15

S/he is adorable!

Goegous colour, and so at home with already.

Hugely jealous that s/he is a good size at six months-ish.



Name ?

Toffee, Treacle, Caramela ?

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SuoceraBlues · 21/12/2012 09:23

People abandon lovely animals all the time. It is incomprehensible.

This is Snowball right after he was hurled over my nieghbours six foot fence. Tiny scrap of geogrous (who luckily bounced well as a baby).Whiskers was much the same size when we found him chewing his way out of a tied up shopping bag dumped in the woods.

I have 8 cats and four dogs. All dumped in the woods near my house or found outside one of the five houses in my tiny little backwater. And I have only kept about a sixth of the animals I have found dumped down here due to fears of turning into an actual proper zoo.

I just don't know how anybody does it. I cry like a baby when I take a dumped animal I only just found to the cat or dog rescue place. How can anybody harden their heart to leaving an animal they know in a place where they have at least as much chance of getting killed by a car or ignored for life as they do being taken in ?

I think your new baby is beautiful, I love ginger cats.

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Sparklingbrook · 21/12/2012 09:26

Envy She is beautiful.

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cozietoesie · 21/12/2012 09:31

Ah good - no dubiety about discussing her then. Xmas Smile

A ginger girl isn't so common so you've got a good 'un. I have to say that I do like ginger cats. I don't rightly see how colour could influence disposition but nonetheless, I've always found ginger cats to be very balanced animals who are calm and gentle with people. (Rapacious and skilled hunters, though. If you had any mice before, you likely won't have them soon.)

Who can tell why cats are abandoned? It's beyond comprehension to me. Even if things are really bad, there's always an alternative.

Again - well done for giving her a home. As she's a bit older than you thought the need for a vet isn't quite so critical but you'll doubtless be thinking of making an appointment for a check, flea and worm treatment etc ? I'd arrange to get her chipped and spayed as soon as possible as well as the rest. She's of an age now - and you won't want to be in FTR's situation with another 7 on your hands!

Xmas Smile

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Mibby · 21/12/2012 09:39

People abandon lovely animals all the time. It is incomprehensible.

We currently have 2 foster kittens from a litter of six who were thrown in a pond late one night in a box. Luckily a chap walking his dog saw the box go in and fished it out quickly. All the kittens survived but i really cant understand the mentality of someone doing that. They were about 8 weeks old at the time so whoever dumped them had 'looked after' them for that long

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ChristmasPuddingsAndMincePies · 21/12/2012 09:41

We still haven't named her yet! We can't think of a name worthy of her!

I have an appointment for a consultation with a vet at 2.30 today, just to work out how old she is / make plans to proceed with chipping, spaying, vaccinations, etc.

It's funny that you say about hunting - we have a stick with shiny fish attached to it by elastic for her, & she has been doing some good pouncing & rolling around biting at them. We don't have mice (to my knowledge!) but if she wants to have a go at the spiders she is more than welcome!

& that photograph of Snowball is so cute! I'm kind of relieved that mine is as big as she is though - I'd panic so much more with a teensy one!

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cozietoesie · 21/12/2012 09:52

Gosh - that was fast to make a vet appointment. Good on you.

Re the hunting and toys - she'll probably enjoy some scrunched up paper balls but if you're anywhere near a charity shop, you could look and see if they have any little teddy bears or soft toys. (Check for glass eyes, nasty wires etc but generally if they're good enough for a kid's toy, they're fine for a cat.) They're great for pummelling and back-leg thummping.

I've also found that a great favourite are the little teddy bears and fake fur tiger etc tails that you often find on cheap keyrings in 'sort-of-pound-shops'. Just cut off the key rings, check thoroughly for any nasty bits and they're away.

All the above wash fine in the machine on a soft wash and dry within an hour. That's important to me because Seniorboy likes to 'kill' his toy and then chew it and dip it in his food while he's eating. Hmm They'd end up a bit stiff and smelly in this house without washing.

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SuoceraBlues · 21/12/2012 10:53

I second Cozie's suggestion for a cuddly toy. She suggested to me when Lilly arrived and it went down a treat.

Provokes many giggles to see a small kitty charging around with a big (compared to her) Poo Bear having been hunted down and dragged around the room firmly in Lilly's teeth. She really does do the whole back arched, crab walking, tail to attention hunting thing to. While Poo sits there impassively, waiting for the inevitable.

Young cats especially are better than telly. And I say that as somebody who would give up the car before I let Sky go.

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SuoceraBlues · 21/12/2012 11:01

I'd panic so much more with a teensy one!

That's pretty much what it felt like to me. Espeically with Lilly who was SO young. Tiny kittens are cute but I found I was holding my breath the whole time, trying not to get too attached (and failing miserably) in case teeny kitty of the moment didn't make it. With bigger young ones it is more relaxed, you can enjoy the silliness and the furrball love without all the angst.

Snowball now (big fat lump that he is) is ten times the fun of Snowball the small because I am past the excessive worry stage. But we all wish he didn't have the "oh you have opened a book, I will sit on that bit of your lap immediatly then, right in front of the pages" reflex. He makes for a terrible window. But is warm and purry, so forgiven.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 21/12/2012 13:16

You wont see a spider for a while, we trained ours to come running when we say spider.

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StuffezLaBouche · 21/12/2012 15:09

Oh she's lovely! She's almost an exact female replica of my little ginger boy (who's currently evilling me - not sure what I've done!!)

Very sad to think why someone would abandon a lovely cat after presumably keeping them for five/six months or so.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 21/12/2012 16:15

Anyone else thinking at 6 months of little known providence she could be pg? Sad

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Sparklingbrook · 21/12/2012 16:17

Ooh Fluffy that's a thought. Sad

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