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GreenieGables · 25/10/2016 20:18

Or possibly two!

I posted 3/4 weeks ago about finding a breeder for a puppy, but then some very lovely ladies guided me in the direction of greyhounds and I fell in love.

But we have a cat, I think I have spoken to every place within a decent radius, some have been more helpful than others.

Yesterday I spoke to a lovely lady and we're going to view two on Friday. Chances are we will take one and I'm so excited I'm giving myself a headache Hmm.

So, what do I need? They're both female so neither will be massive. We're going to get a crate, do you think an XL will be the right size? She will come with muzzle, collar and lead so no need to buy them.

What about food bowls? Which are best? Beds? Which are the comfiest? Do I need a kong type toy? I'm not sure on her diet yet, but if it's kibble which is the best to go for? I'd prefer raw but I'll carry on with whatever she's on now and suits her.

Eek, one very excited household here Smile

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GreenieGables · 02/11/2016 07:56

Thanks all.

We had our first proper dog/cat encounter this morning where the dog wasn't in the crate. Cat was sat by the front door and dog walked out the living (held by DH and muzzled). Can anyone guess who was more scared Grin. Cat scarpered upstairs and dog was very alert and looking around but then ran back to the living room. Phew! Baby steps.

Today she's going for a social at my friends farm to meet her dogs. She'll stay muzzled and on the lead but I want her to be able to sniff around the other dogs without worrying about what the owners think. I know these dogs well and they won't actually be interested in her at all, but I want her to socialise properly and realise other dogs are ok!

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luckylambchop · 01/11/2016 21:37

It's definitely helping me too, Greenie, thank you! Sounds like it's all going well. Brilliant! Smile

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pugsake · 01/11/2016 18:10

Pleased she's settled greenie you sound like your doing a fab job with her.

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GreenieGables · 01/11/2016 17:35

Thank you all again for your reassurance. This thread has definitely helped me through the last few days, and hopefully will help lamb out as well.

Cat is getting a bit braver and creeps down the stairs, then shoots back up again.

Loving the go go hamster carrying dog Grin

We discovered today she doesn't like motorbikes or workman drills Grin Lept in the air when a motorbike zoomed past and then kept very close to my side for the rest of the walk, she was pretty much leaning on me and walking at one point. I'm hoping that means she trusts me and knows me. She's really starting to respond now to her name and a few other commands. Loving her Smile

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MaryMarigold · 31/10/2016 22:02

We have two older cats and a rescue terrier cross. The cats were here first.

The cats don't particularly like the dog and there is no cosying up on the rug etc. To date the dog just seems a bit over enthusiastic around the cats (and mildly scared of the smallest one) but I don't 100% trust him just as a result of his breed.

We have a baby gate on the stairs so that upstairs is the cats' safe space. The cats and the dog are never left alone together - when we are out the dog is either baby gated in the kitchen or the cats are out. It's not ideal but it works fine. Unless the dog is properly aggressive with cats I think it's manageable.

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Floralnomad · 31/10/2016 22:01

The family involved rehomed the dog but the cat was lucky to survive , I have a patterdale X and his ambition is to eat a cat , although I do think he's going a bit soft as he gets older as he spent most of yesterday walking round the house very gently carrying a go go hamster .

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WonderOnTheUp · 31/10/2016 21:59

Hi, just wanted to reassure you about your cat. When our lurcher (first dog they had met inside) moved in my most timid cat moved out for the first few days. I was pretty distraught, it did take a long time (months not weeks) for her to be comfortable but bit by bit she got there and they are friends and even sleep together sometimes! I put food outside for her to eat so she still came home (albeit not inside!) for food. After a few weeks she would come in as far as the windowsill and things moved on from there. I had a stairgate up so the kitchen was a dog free zone which seemed to help. Good luck and enjoy your new dog!

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GreenieGables · 31/10/2016 21:24

Floral that sounds very traumatic, how awful. I would always be over cautious and would never ever leave them alone together. I'm very much a worrier, nothing is worth the risk.

My cat would always have the freerun, dog would be shut in the living room.

And thank you Bambinho, that's good to know.

Pug that's impressive, I'm hoping my cat mans up a bit and shows the dog whose boss and who was there first. He seems to just run though after some growling and hissing.

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pugsake · 31/10/2016 17:07

Greenie my mam has four cats. It's a bull greyhound and a lurcher she has. Both ex-workers (lamping not racing) dogs have never bothered them, the cats were there first.

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Bambinho · 31/10/2016 15:17

Oh yes, I agree with the above post. However well the cat and dog are getting on I would never take a chance and leave them alone together. Dog gets locked in a room with water and his bed (no hardship to a greyhound) and cat gets free run of the rest of the house.

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Floralnomad · 31/10/2016 13:50

Whilst I disagree with the vet that no greyhound can live with a cat I do think that it's a sensible precaution to always ensure they are supervised or separated when you go out . Somebody who I walk with told me about a friend who's patterdale pup mauled the family cat despite them having seemed on good terms , pup had been in the house for a few months and was purchased as an 8 week old .

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Bambinho · 31/10/2016 12:48

Congratulations on your new hound, I'm one of the greyhound evangelists on here having been similarly persuaded last year Smile

Your dog will have been cat tested by the RGT branch, this involves talking the dog (muzzled and on lead) into the presence of a cat and seeing their reaction. If they appear uninterested and can be easily led away then bingo! But remember, a lot of it will be how your cat reacts to the dog too.

My greyhound is a cat trainable and he has been fine with cats in the house, when I got him I had 2 cats who never came into contact with dogs and I think my now sadly departed older and fiercer cat scared the life out of him! Now I just have one very sweet little cat and they are not best buddies but are in the same room and on the same rug together all the time. I even get them standing next to each other in the kitchen with their pleading hungry faces at tea time Grin

He still has a prey drive though, he will chase the cat if he sees her in the village and he's managed to catch a few rabbits out on country walks. He also used to chase the cat in the garden but is so used to her now he has stopped. It all just takes time.

Mine was also a very good walker straight off, led me to be confident I could walk him off lead which I do a lot now.

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GreenieGables · 31/10/2016 12:46

Thank you for the reassurance, it really helps. I'm willing to put in the work, it was just a bit gutting to hear such a strong stance from a vet. He did say it sounds like
I'd done my research though .

Cat just came back for a bit and is hanging around the front of the house, so am pleased he hasn't bolted never to return!

This is real rollercoaster ride! And whoever said it's like a mini earthquake is spot on!

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tabulahrasa · 31/10/2016 12:31

Vets aren't always the most clued up about behaviour...some are.

But, they're effectively GPs...so sometimes their advice on non medical stuff isn't the greatest.

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luckylambchop · 31/10/2016 12:04

That must have been gutting to hear from the vets! To put forward a more positive position, I have just phoned my vets to make an appointment for ours for the day after collection. When I said we'd have to train him out of chasing the cat she immediately said "oh yes, it can be done, and we can help you with that if you need us to."

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GinIsIn · 31/10/2016 11:45

Our friends have a huge greyhound and we have a tiny, cat sized fluffy dog and they get along really well. Ok, not really well - our tiny fluffy thing bullies said giant greyhound a bit.....

And she is friends with 2 giant shaggy lurchers at her dog walker too - it's not at all insurmountable.

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GinIsIn · 31/10/2016 11:43

A lot of greyhounds have a strong prey drive and can't be around small fluffy dogs or cats, but some can! Given that the rescue specifically said this one is fine with cats and it's shown no interest in yours I find it unlikely that it would be a problem!

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GreenieGables · 31/10/2016 11:21

Vet went well, she was a star. She's in good health and no sign of fleas or any nasties. He said her thin coat is just from where she's been in kennels and the sore on her tail is also from where she's been rubbing it in kennels. The sore is fully healed it's just got no hair. He did say it was growing back though.

One thing he said was about the cat, and he was certain it wouldn't work out. He said don't even try and integrate them. So now I'm feeling a bit deflated about that. I know, and have seen it can work, but hearing it from a vet made me feel like I was doing the wrong thing and that I'm going against the professionals. He said his mother in laws greyhound killed the neighbours cat Sad.

I just took her for a walk and she stayed by my side the whole time, no pulling, no nothing. Just a nice walk where she listened when I told her to wait. So I think she has potential, it's just the cat Confused.

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saffronwblue · 31/10/2016 06:49

No advice on car but she is gorgeous. How sweet that she listens to your DH. I'm sure in time your dc will settle and love her dearly. It is a bit like a small earthquake in the family getting a new pet.

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GreenieGables · 31/10/2016 06:42

Thank you. She has to go in the boot. There's 5 of us so no space in the car! I'd be happy if she just put her front paws up then I could lift her from behind. I'm sure she'll learn with time though, it's just for the vets this morning, I can see myself doing some harm by trying to left her!

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Floralnomad · 31/10/2016 06:34

Whereabouts in the car are you trying to get her ? Mine just jumps into the back seat where he wears a seatbelt harness . I doubt she's been in many cars so it's just a learning experience for her but if she won't jump you can buy ramps for them to walk up . She is lovely btw .

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GreenieGables · 31/10/2016 06:22

Ok thank you, for now we'll just keep walking. I did find some owners were great and as soon as they saw she had a muzzle, recalled their dogs who came bounding up to us and kept them away.

She is great on the lead though, mostly walks without pulling and walks next to us. She's much more responsive to DH than me though, you can see she always looks at him and listens to what he says.

Trip to the vets this morning, so we'll see what they say.

Actually lamb you make a good point and I think I was a bit hasty, as I'm sure once upon a time I was one of 'those' uneducated people!

I'm quite surprised by DH, he's the one doing the collar and coat shopping!

One more question. How do I get the lump into the car?! She just stands and stares and DH has had to lift her up. I'm on my own tomorrow though and not sure I'm strong enough!! We tried using a treat and getting her to follow it but she just stood there not knowing what to do. Fun times!

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Scuttlebutter · 31/10/2016 00:07

So pleased she is home with you.

The coat being poor , flea issue and minor cuts/grazes are all very common when they come out of kennels into their new home.

Sort yourself out with a vet appt to give her the once over and good diet plus grooming and sleeping on soft surfaces will soon have her looking like a different dog. You'll actually see a huge difference by Christmas.

YY - your large black dog wearing a muzzle will lead to mass panic out on walks but that should be no surprise as you only have to see the regular anti dog threads on AIBU to get a feel for many people's views on dogs. Just learn to find it quietly amusing. Grin

Out on walks, just keep her walking - we follow the 30 second rule for sniffs - just enough time for a quick sniff if they are on that side and keep going. There will be plenty of time for socialising in the future - at this stage I'd concentrate on her learning to walk with you (and you with her) and keeping her focus on you.

She is finding her new routine/home tiring, she's learning the ropes but it sounds like she is doing very well.

And enjoy looking at collars!

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luckylambchop · 30/10/2016 15:53

To be honest, I was that uneducated! Before I decided to get a dog of my own I would have assumed a dog in a muzzle was dangerous and scary. Now of course i know otherwise, but plenty of people don't, because they've no reason to know. 😊

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Costacoffeeplease · 30/10/2016 14:34

Yep, people are definitely that uneducated, you just have to read dog threads on here

I would keep her away from other dogs completely at the moment, until you can gauge her reaction

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