Got a six month old dog at the weekend so I'm aware it's very early days. Dog came from a breeder but hadn't sold, however it seems very unsocialised. But he was lovely when we saw him at the breeders house.
He is fine with my 12yo dd all the time. He follows her round like a shadow.
He is always fine with me if I am on my own or if its me and Dh. If dd is there as well he will sometimes growl and snarl at me when I come in a room.
When dd is at school he follows me like a shadow and is fine with me. But then if Dh comes in a room he snarls and growls and lunges at Dh.
If Dh is home alone with the dog then the dog is fine with Dh and follows him around.
We've read up on dog body language, our body language. We're ignoring bad behaviour and praising him for not growling/been good. If he growls we turn our back on him and move away.
We've got the dog a dap collar and he has a crate so he could retreat there if he wanted to. I've made an appt to see a dog trainer on Thursday for a one to one.
I spent all day yesterday with him either by my feet or on my knee.
He's fine with people coming to the door but occasionally lunges snarling at random objects like bags. He lunges at other dogs on walks when he first meets them but will then walk alongside them fine for ages. But if they start playing with each other amongst themselves he will start barking and leaping about, like the excitement tips him over the edge. He's kept on his lead and other dogs are off their lead....which he's ok with as long as they're walking nicely. Do I keep walking him with these dogs for socialisation or take him on calmer, quieter walks?
Dd had a friend round tonight and dog was mainly ok with the friend. I wasn't here so didn't witness this but apparently dog was doing occassional growling at friend and then nipping at her trousers. Dh got fed up with this and ignored all I'd told him and pinned the dog to the ground. Dog then bit him.....has left a bruise but not broken the skin so not a proper bite. I've pointed out to Dh that he's probably made the dog even more scared now so it won't have helped.
What do we need to be doing to resolve this? Will it just take time and effort? Is he beyond hope if he's not been socialised by six months?
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New dog is fear aggressive and I'm struggling.
VivaLeBeaver · 30/04/2013 22:35
Aww he's so small, hard to believe he can cause so much bother 
I feel for you
my dog was very nervous and scared of everything when we first got her. The best thing we did was crate. You may not agree but this is her safe place when it gets a bit too much. She even has a blanket over it to make it dark and den like.
She is now so much better. After a month or so of having her she bit my dd1 who is 4 and growled twice at my dd2 (2). I flipped and got a behaviourist in straight away.
The crate means she can retreat in there if not happy and I actually close her in so she doesn't follow me round all the time. This stops her getting seperation anxiety.
It's also a good visual cue for my dcs. They know never to disturb her if she's in there.
Please take some advice from a behaviourist if poss. And just to add its a long road with a fear aggressive dog. We have had ours a year and there's still lots to do. I've really had to rethink my 'vision' of a family dog.
Viva you have been through a lot with losing your other dog it might be worth gritting your teeth and stepping aside for someone else to have this pup and hand her back to the breeder.
I dont think i would personally want to get myself into a big battle like you could have ahead of you with one to ones and behaviour experts so early in your pups life when there is a quick get out clause by handing her back
It sounds very defeatist advice from me i'm afraid.
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I reckon he'd be returned.
My dog was fear aggressive but towards dogs. Took a few weeks but I got him socialised. He hates toddlers though and can't change that but I just keep him away from them. Also off the furniture as he was snapping at dcs when eye level with them. But he's lovely and so much better than he was. I got him at 16 months.
Good luck with yours. I used the dog whisperer techniques with my dog. I know he isn't popular on here though 
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