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Can my child’s father get what he is asking for in court

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Nfee · 19/03/2024 01:39

Last year, my child came forward with allegations of physical and emotional abuse from family members on their fathers side. Police and social services were involved and my childs father lost overnight access. The father lives in the same property as the accused and recently I received a solicitor letter demanding overnight access be reinstated. I have had to seek legal advice on the matter but I was hoping for some personal advice as I’m worried a judge will give the access back. My child’s father has not adhered to social services requests over the past year (consistent public contact and actively looking for a new home). The allegations are downplayed and I don’t believe the father has the ability to keep my child safe. My child is coming 15 and is being manipulated into going back to the address. If this goes to court, what are the chances a judge will grant his request?

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MooseBeTimeForSnow · 19/03/2024 03:11

At 15, if the child says no then the Court won’t force it.

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MooseBeTimeForSnow · 19/03/2024 03:12

If he self representing? If he is represented I’m surprised his lawyer has advised him to issue proceedings.

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cooldarkroom · 19/03/2024 03:24

At 15 Your child can refuse.

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Iizzyb · 19/03/2024 03:48

Lawyers will write what their clients ask them to write. Doesn't mean that's what a court would order.

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DontBeAPrickDarren · 19/03/2024 04:16

Given there has been social services involvement it seems likely the court will ask for a report from the social worker which is likely to carry some weight.

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Netaporter · 19/03/2024 04:28

Your role here is to support your child following disclosure. I’d contact the SS team allocated to you for advice.

To clarify though, when you say ‘manipulated’ what do you mean? That your child wants to stay overnight or is being guilted into doing so?

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MaloneMeadow · 19/03/2024 08:37

At 15 they will (rightly) listen to your child. Sorry that the father is being an absolute tosser

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