Specifically music lessons. DC will be starting GCSEs in September. Currently has lessons for two different instruments - one lesson during school hours and the other at the weekend. I am considering suggesting we stop all music lessons come September and I'm really just thinking out loud here and looking for other experiences.
DC enjoys playing but is not particularly bothered is the best way to put it. It is not a "passion" and they aren't exceptionally talented. They don't even listen to music for fun (which I find weird because music has been a massive part of my life since I was about 11 and I can't play a note on an instrument!). DC sees music in a very practical way whereas for me it is an emotional experience I suppose.
They don't practice regularly but will sit down and play "for fun" a few times a month which I think is nice for them to be able to do that. Currently, they are aiming towards grade 4 in one instrument but don't take exams in the other.
They have not chosen music at GCSE but if they stopped lessons then they could continue to play as part of the school band - important for friendship reasons.
If we stop the lessons it saves us money and time at the weekends - I just hate the thought of them giving things up when they have worked on it for so long... But the skills won't disappear and they can go back to it later if they want to? DC will still have a couple of extra curricular sports which I feel are very important to keep for their future health and wellbeing.
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issabel · 13/03/2024 12:39
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