Do teenage boys come back to their mums?
There’s that saying that sons are sons until they get a wife whereas daughters are daughters for life and while he hasn’t got married I feel like I don’t know him anymore.
Mine is 18 and I’ve always single parented really and had a good relationship. And now without any discussion he has moved to his dad’s. His dad and I have never gone on since I divorced him after years of abuse to myself and my daughter. Including sexual inappropriate behaviour.
I have the sense that my son needs space from me so I’ve given him that. I live alone and I guess am quite boring compared to his narcissistic and social father (who is loaded). Not that my son is materialistic because he isn’t but he is being supported by his father. And it sounds like his new partner is oblivious to his perversions (tho I hope to god he doesn’t expose her daughter to them). It’s all about image for both of them.
my son and I have always been very very close and I feel heartbroken that we haven’t talked about his decision to move there or about the past. I have always lived for my kids not for me tho I’m trying to focus on my needs now. I find it hard but I don’t see an alternative.
So what I really want to know is whether teenage boys come back. When my son was little my ex used to say it didn’t matter if I did everything, his son would love him more in the end. I feel like it’s come true and it’s made me feel very sad. None of my hopes for parenthood have really worked out. It all feels a bit of a scam 😂
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Knackerednow2019 · 16/01/2024 08:46
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